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The more things change, the more things stay the same-a truer saying couldnt be made about the Transgender experience.

The sister (Maura Liebman) of a 17 year old trans female (David Liebman) posted in the F-M newsletter Metamorphosis in 1982 lovingly writes:
David writes in the same newsletter to the newsletter's editor Rupert Raj:
David, like so many of todays Lesbian teens, sexually abused Het teen Girls and various emotionally needy/socially awkward/wayward Girls, hoped/believed transition would soothe/smooth and fix her troubled young life.

What became of 17 year old David Liebman? Did she find the comfortableness, happiness and spiritual joy she so desperately desired, and most certainly deserved, at the end of a needle filled with testosterone or a surgeon's scalpel? Is David living all her dreams somewhere with a husband or a wife, with children and a pet dog?

After a little digging, I found the answer to those questions in a recent Transgender anthology put together by the same Trans activist (Rupert Raj) who created Metamorphosis:


Looking further into the anthology, Rupert Raj confirms David's cause of death just a year and a half after she first contacted Rupert Raj in a poem Raj wrote:

 
Stories like David Liebman's are tragically more the norm than the exception, and even where suicide is not outright accomplished, it is often tried or thought deeply about and not before transition begins, but after! Unfortunately because Transgender transition is based in covering/hiding whats real, the suicide attempts, suicides, depressions and health scares that go hand in hand with being Transgender go hidden as well. Unlike David Liebman who thanks to Rupert Raj and David's sister, a tiny tragic footprint remains of her, or rather the her buried with transition. Maura Lieman also wrote this poem for her sister David:
Regrettably I'm sure, Maura realised too late, all the love in the world cannot save someone in the throws of transition and someone in the throws of transition cannot truly feel loved.

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Kylea Taylor's Homophobic SoulCollage Has NO Soul

 
Yesterday Mrs Dirt received a WAY out odd email from (Het)Marriage and (Het)Family Therapist/SoulCollage president and author of
 Kylea Taylor (who is neither ethical nor caring-to Lesbians that is) that reads as follows:
Hi Anna,

I read your blog and support you speaking out and telling your truth, but since that Twitter account is not about SoulCollage® per se I wonder if you could just remove reference to SoulCollage® or your being a SoulCollage® Facilitator on that site? My concern is having your SoulCollage® credentials listed on the account where a lot of angry postings are might make people feel unsafe to do SoulCollage®. In the Training we ask that people only use the trademark "SoulCollage®" on the specific pages where the work is described, according to the Principles of SoulCollage®. I know you said on your blog that  

"I will continue to speak up, to speak out, and to stand in solidarity with other Lesbians & with gay men, but I plan to try to do so in a way that doesn’t tear others down and create unnecessary angst/division.

and that is great, we support that mission, but the conversations don't seem to concern SoulCollage® per se and it might be better for SoulCollage® work (yours and other Facilitators' in general) if we could prevent people connecting SoulCollage® inadvertently with any of those pretty ugly postings from others. Can you let me know if this makes sense to you?

Warm regards,
Kylea
A little back story, Mrs Dirt had been affiliated with SoulCollage work for about five years. The founder Seena Frost had become a personal hero of Mrs Dirt's and likewise Mrs Dirt became involved (personally/emotionally and financially) with SoulCollage. So to get this VERY odd and unexpected email from the current president Kylea Taylor, Mrs Dirt was a combo of puzzled, shocked and angry not to mention HURT. Puzzled because Kylea Taylor makes clear Mrs Dirt's Lesbian truths are not the Hetsplained Lezbophobic notions held by Kylea Taylor. Shocked because she did not expect to find any degree, let alone a GREAT degree of Homophobia/Lezbophobia within SoulCollage. Angry because she so fervently believed in something that now drips red with Homophobia/Lezbophobia! And hurt for all of the above!

Despite the jaggedness of the email (Kylea Taylor mentions Mrs Dirt's Blog, quotes from her blog then mentions her Twitter account. Which is it hun?) Mrs Dirt did her best to comply with Kylea Taylor demands, by removing any and all SoulCollage references from herself anywhere. Confusing also was Kylea Taylor stating some person some place some where some time in time MIGHT read a Tweet or blog post Mrs Dirt wrote and might suddenly cease any potential interest (given that is they even heard of SoulCollage) in becoming a paid member of SoulCollage. HUH? In other words, Kylea Taylor is directly BLAMING Mrs Dirt for "ugly comments" to Mrs Dirt from strangers on the internet!!! Not an email saying she is sorry Mrs Dirt is getting dumped on/shit on by Homophobic assfucks! Not a message of stay strong and fight the good fight! Nothing about being a respected SoulCollage member I'm here for you if you ever need to talk. No! Instead its a big fucking GET THE FUCK AWAY FROM US YOU SICK FUCKING LEZZIE BITCH!

Moving on, Mrs Dirt responded accordingly:
Okay, I've attempted to remove all traces of my connection to SoulCollage® from my blog, Twitter, Facebook (I didn't have SC listed anywhere on my FB profile, but I belonged to a couple of SC groups, which I just left), and LinkedIn. 
Please double-check, and please let me know if I have missed anything. 
The one thing I couldn't figure out how to do is how to remove my profile/account on the SoulCollage website.
It appears that my profile may have already been removed and/or that I have been partially locked out of my account (I can still log in, but it won't let me see my own profile, plus, when I Google my profile link, it is gone). 
(See screencap; this is what I see when I am logged in and try to see my own profile). 
Can you please advise me on how to get that done? Thanks.
PS: I believe my SC Circle membership expires in November of this year, so I have paid through that date to have my profile listed as a facilitator. 
Since it appears that my profile has been removed/hidden from your website and is therefore unavailable on all searches (I signed out and searched on different browsers ~ Chrome, Firefox, IE ~ and my profile is not available on any of them), I truly believe I deserve a partial refund for the time that my profile has been unavailable ~ but please donate it to the SoulCollage® Scholarship Fund (or whatever other charity you choose). Thanks, Anna :-)
Bear in mind, just the day before Mrs Dirt was in her SoulCollage account! Kylea Taylor's sugary BS response:
Hi Anna,
Thanking for taking the SoulCollage® trademark off the Twitter account which is not about SoulCollage® and where you are doing some good activism re helping people understand sexual preference issues, but yet are unfortunately attracting some comments that make the site feel unsafe for prospective SoulCollagers. I really appreciate your understanding that issue. 
Your profile is on the site, but you did not check the box that says you want it to appear to the public, so it does not appear. We have that option so that people can go on and off of appearing publicly when they want to. If you do want it to appear to the public, I am happy to check that box for you. Let me know. We want you to continue to be a SoulCollage® Facilitator if you are still interested in doing that work, and there is no problem with you advertising your SoulCollage® work in conjunction with your psychology work in a way that creates a safe climate for those attracted to going deeply into self-discovery; it was just the Twitter account that was not in alignment because of the posts of others. 
Let me know if you want your profile to appear on the site.
Thanks again for responding so quickly, and warm regards,
Kylea
I'm not sure how fucking dumb this Kylea Taylor is, but my wife is a fucking genius and intelligent enough to know having access to your profile and having your profile viewable to others are two different things! How the fuck can you check or uncheck when the fucking profile no longer exists to log the fuck into!
 AND if Twitter was the issue, WHY IN THE FUCK did Kylea Taylor first and foremost mention Mrs Dirt's BLOG and THEN quote from said BLOG?! And IF you had some doubts about any Homophobia/Lezbophobia in Kylea Taylor's first email, the sexual preference reference is a HUGE red flag! According to Kylea Taylor herself, the problem was ugly or angry comments by other people. Where, and more importantly WHY, would sexual preference be brought up?


Mrs Dirt's response back to that email:
Hi again, Thanks for your prompt reply. 
(Before I go on, this point is off-topic, and please know that I truly don't mean to be argumentative, but I would like to mention that the preferred phrase is "orientation", not "preference", because preference implies it's just a choice, like "preferring" chocolate versus vanilla ice cream when you would eat either one). 
I am wondering whether anyone specifically reported "feeling unsafe" to do SoulCollage®, based on my Twitter profile/activities? I know you wouldn't give me details (and I'm not even asking for details), but I am very curious, because you have mentioned people "feeling unsafe" to do SoulCollage® twice ~ and that is a very unusual, and a very specific, phrase.
I don't recall ever setting my profile to "private", and even if I had inadvertently set the profile to "private"I am still puzzled why that would not allow me to see/edit my own profile (I mean, when I am signed in to my SoulCollage® account). 
Anyway, I really think it's best for all concerned for me to sever any connection with SoulCollage® now; I honestly feel very uncomfortable being a part of an organization that is obviously quite concerned about being affiliated with me.
I would appreciate if you could remove my profile/account from the SoulCollage® website, please.
Thanks, Anna :-)
And the last response from SoulCollage's resident/president Homophobe Kylea Taylor to Mrs Dirt for the clincher reads:
Hi Anna, Thanks for educating me about the terms to use (i.e., sexual orientation rather than sexual preference). I appreciate your taking the time to do that.
I did get an email from a Facilitator who was worried whether followers to your Twitter account would feel safe re: SoulCollage®. It is such a hard call to make. Truth on social media can call up rough responses and it is hard to create a safe environment sometimes on the web where you don't have the same control of a safe container as one would in therapy or a workshop.
The default setting in our profile settings is for the profile not to be public. We have it that way so that the Facilitator must check a box consciously to appear on the web. Some people don't want to be -- they might have a life that they keep separate from SoulCollage® for some reason.
(Clearly IGNORING here what Mrs Dirt said ie there is no profile to get into!)
I am truly sorry you want to sever your connection with SoulCollage®. To be clear again, we just wanted to keep the SoulCollage® name on a page about SoulCollage® and to separate that part of your work from the page where people are responding to your lifestyle with lots of judgments and homophobia. That in my mind is very different from concern about being affiliated with you.
You have asked twice and so I will remove your account in a few days if I don't hear from you. If you want to still receive the Neter Letter and other mail, we can leave you on the mailing list which is separate from your account.
Warm regards,
Kylea
Even after Mrs Dirt corrects her Homophobic ignorance, Kylea Taylor (for the win) calls Mrs Dirt's BIOLOGICAL nature a fucking "lifestyle"! SoulCollage is a lifestyle! Veganism is a lifestyle! Body building is a lifestyle! Neo Nazism is a lifestyle! How your brain and body organically function is NOT a FUCKING LIFESTYLE! Unless you are so fucking ignorant as to think the tree growing in your front yard is a lifestyle! Or the Earth revolving around the fucking sun is lifestyle! OR unless you are a flat out sick fucking HOMOPHOBE! Which by the way is exactly what Kylea Taylor is.

Whether she knows it or whether its lurking within her SOUL, Kylea Taylor despises Gays and Lesbians! And once Mrs Dirt's being a Lesbian came to her attention, Mrs Dirt was (in true homophobic fashion) swiftly dealt with!

If you are a Gay male or a Lesbian and are affiliated with SoulCollage in any way shape or form, you might want to consider where your hard earned Homosexual dollars are going. If you are Gay or Lesbian and have thought about joining SoulCollage, think again!

As an interesting aside, lets take a brief glimpse at one of Kylea Taylor's prime mentors/heros Stanislav Grof. Kylea Taylor has this to say about her mentor:
Now lets take a look at what Kylea Taylor's GOD has to say about us Homosexuals:
 Also male homosexuality seems to be related meaningfully to the birth trauma, especially to the third perinatal matrix. The fear of female genitals, explained in psychoanalysis by the castration complex based on infantile fantasies about vagina as a dangerous organ (vagina dentata) seems to be on a deeper level related to the biological fact that the female genital is a potentially murderous instrument that was once actually a source of agony and vital threat. It can not, therefore, become a source of sexual pleasure (obviously this guy has never been to a fag bar at 2am!) if the unconscious memory of birth is too vivid. The fear of heterosexual sex was in these patients often accompanied by a deep craving for warm non-genital contact with the maternal figure on a very primitive level (anaclitic needs).
As far as female homosexuality is concerned it appears to be more superficial; in LSD treatment it could usually be traced back to deep levels of COEX systems and BPM IV. Deep roots for Lesbian needs and tendencies seemed to be in unsatisfied craving for close contact between mother and daughter during early infancy and the association between the oral genital contact and the orgiastic release at birth. (He means we smelled/tasted our mother's pussy on the way out and developed a taste for it) In addition, very important traumatic memories could usually be recovered in which the male sexual object was associated with danger, guilt or humiliation.
The obsessive-compulsive neurosis seems to have the deepest roots in BPM III. The fact that conflicts in regard to homosexuality and aggression as well as inhibition of genitality belong to the most important problems found in these patients, is in good agreement with this assumption. The relation of homosexuality to birth anxiety was already demonstrated above. The inhibition of genitality seems to be in the last analysis due to a similarity between the pattern of sexual orgasm and negative aspects of the third perinatal matrix. Thus attempts to control aggression and anxiety bound to this matrix inhibit also the pattern of sexual response.
Clearly that Homophobic/Lezbophobic apple, Kylea Taylor, didnt fall far from the vile putrid nauseous Homosexual hating tree Stan Grof!

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Self Hating Dykes and Why they Date STRAIGHTBIANS


Mrs Dirt and I have written both individually about STRAIGHTBIANS and written jointly about them. We have written about the many dangers STRAIGHTBIANS pose for Lesbians and highlighted different categories of STRAIGHTBIAN Het Women might fall into. So to be fair, this post will discuss Lesbians who actively seek/date/partner with STRAIGHTBIANS, because after all, it takes two to Tango!

Dykes that seek out/prefer/demand a STRAIGHTBIAN, fortunately are NOT the rule of Dyke thumbs, BUT they do aid in harming directly/indirectly all Lesbians to a degree. What sort of Dyke would willingly want to date a Het Woman? Unfortunately due to the combo of growing up in a world that despises Homosexuals, lack of visible Lesbian role models of all Lesbian ranges and accurate Lesbian information, Lesbians that develop a preference for STRAIGHTBIANS isnt completely cut and dry.

That being said, despite all the difficulties in being a Dyke, why would a Dyke prefer a STRAIGHTBIAN over another Dyke?
  • Society is greatly to blame here. As a Dyke, we naturally are attracted to other Dykes, and we usually have a specific type of Dyke that REALLY attracts us. The problem is, nearly ALL and sometimes ALL the females in or around our lives are Straight. We may have a preference for pizza, but if the ONLY thing ever on the menu is Hamburger, we take the burger rather than starve! My point here, lack of visible Lesbians can most definitely confuse some Lesbians into accepting Het Women as the only desirable females available.
  • When Dykes go from simply "crushing" on Girls and begin being interested in dating/relationships our entire repertoire on dating/marriage has been /informed by Heterosexuals! Most Lesbians look to Het Males on how to ACT around Het Women. Dykes who employ male tactics in hopes of getting a girlfriend usually attract a Het female! Most Lesbians figure this stuff out quite early and move on and into real Lesbian love/relationships, but for some insecure Dykes, they never move past Heterosexual play acting. 
  • These particular Dykes psychologically DEPEND on STRAIGHTBIANS to reflect back the (mannish) image they have of themselves. Dating another Lesbian would strip them of the acceptable Heterosexuality they struggle to recreate/create.
  • If one of these Dykes actually winds up dating another Dyke, she will subtly and sometimes outright suggest/demand her Lesbian partner be/act or dress more feminine, ie more Straight.
On a personal level, I have known throughout my adult like various Dykes who date Straight. Dykes who have sought some kind of friendships with me, only to be taken aback when they found I did not share the Het male ideas (bear in mind most males do not share their ideas either) of females that they did. When I've encountered these Dykes who are looking for a Butch buddy of sorts, they have always been left disappointed I did nothing to further their Het fantasies of butch bonding.

Femme friends, including my wife have had similar experiences with the Lesbians discussed above. When telling me about a few particular Dykes Mrs Dirt had known personally, she even used the same word I had when describing h
er own failure to meet the Hetero expectations of said Dykes; disappointed!

So while there are clear and specific reasons STRAIGHTBIANS will claim/date Lesbians, there are a small percentage of Lesbians that willingly seek out STRAIGHTBIANS. Dykes whose entire fabricated image of themselves is dependent on STRAIGHTBIANS. Dykes whose ego for varying reasons, failed to develop and mature beyond the Heterosexualism they aspire.

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Trans Trending Who is Transitioning STILL!


Cam-Straight Girl

Az-Straight Girl 

Em-Straight Girl 

Tim-Straight Girl

Evan-Straight Girl

Ess-Straight Girl

Chia Straight Girl

Dan-Straight Girl 

JC-Straight Girl

Lesbians transition for reasons usually associated with fear/discomfort with Hetero-Dysphoria and Homophobia.

The growing number of Het females transitioning are a direct response to transition being used as a cure-all for female mental distress/Het female masochistic emotional default and cries for HELP beyond yesterday's eating disorders, sexual promiscuity or cutting.

And so long as transition has a green light, disturbed Het female youths are going to seek HELP in all the wrong places. Only HELP from a needle merely fills the bloodstream with different ills and HELP from surgeon's knife simply carves greater troubles.

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A Lesbian Film with an Actual Lesbian Character!

Recently Mrs Dirt and I were discussing the serious lack of Lesbian films there are as well as the lack of REAL Lesbian characters in films that claim to be Lesbian. I mentioned the film Losing Chase as an interesting film featuring a real Lesbian character (played by Helen Mirren) which Mrs Dirt had never seen.

After watching the film from an online link, (I hadnt seen the film since it came out in the 90's myself), I looked up the film's writer (KNOWING only a Dyke could have written it), and BINGO, I was correct! A Lesbian (Anne Meredith) DID write Losing Chase! In seeking information about Anne Meredith I came across this VERY interesting article/interview that unknowingly speaks volumes about Lesbian biology/thought process.

Anne Meredith had this to say about her Lesbian childhood:
"I had so many possibilities. The only thing that got in my way was the fact that I was a girl. But I was so hard-headed that I didn't realize that was a liability, so it didn't become one. 
"But if I had chosen to be a professional athlete -- if I had been able to play Little League, I probably would have wanted to be a baseball player. But I wasn't allowed to play. 
"I painted, and played music, and was a ski racer, and played tennis on the junior circuit -- there were so many things I loved doing, and was good at doing. It wasn't problematic for me, but I think my parents thought it was.
"I felt like Superman, which is probably what has allowed me to be here with such a happy heart, because Hollywood can bruise sensitive people quickly. It's not that I'm not sensitive; I'm incredibly sensitive, but I feel like I'm able to leap tall buildings and come down on the other side and land on my feet somehow."
Like nearly all Dykes, she was blind to Heterosexual roles (for females) because she wasnt a Heterosexual! Allowing her to excel in areas normally occupied for males. Given this interview took place while Anne was still in her 20's, she not surprisingly assumes Het females didnt grow likewise because they werent taught to:
That's one thing where girls really do themselves in. I blame their mothers for that. I think for the most part, their fathers are clueless about raising daughters. 
"And there are studies about when girls get to school, that first grade girls are as good or better at science and math than boys are, and as time goes by, it reverses. And it's only because the teachers, and most of them happen to be women, are calling on the boys and excluding the girls. 
"So I really hold women accountable for not empowering their own daughters, and for empowering their sons over their daughters. I speak to that a lot in my work as a writer. It makes me mad, because I've seen it around me so much."
Anne doesnt understand how she escaped these perceived messages (patriarchy?) told/taught to Girls. She even mentions how Girls can do well in certain school subjects but at around puberty Boys surpass them. Anne kinda gets the biology at work here, but not quite.
"But pretty much as a child, I felt genderless, and that's probably why. I was a tomboy, and I was able to beat up any boy who picked on my best friend or whatever, and I had a lot of power on the playground
"It wasn't brute strength, and I wasn't bigger than they were, it was just determination, and I had a real strong sense of what's right and what's wrong, and how to behave and how not to behave. 
"The gym teacher always picked me and another boy to select others for the kickball teams. That's a rotten position to be in, because you want to pick the teams that will win, but you don't want to exclude anyone. 
"I always picked the kid with the glasses that were like ten inches thick, and the girl who couldn't run because she'd been in an accident when she was a kid, and like that.
"And if I heard any other kids mocking any of them, I just took off like a banshee and beat the crap out of them. I was constantly being sent home from school. But I was in the gifted kids program, too, and that was good."
This truly is almost a blueprint for the life of most Lesbian childen! We know we arent Girls and we know (we arent Boys) while we may have more in common with Boys than Girls, our sense of right and wrong trumps power, which usually lures Boys.
"I was never treated like a little girl, because I never behaved like a little girl, I always behaved like a boy. And it did serve me well. A lot of people were trying to force me into being a girl, it's not like everyone was very tolerant in the kind of town where I grew up. But somehow I was born this way, and so there's really nothing for me to do about it"..."I don't even identify myself as female, exactly. Or male."
Lesbian dont behave like Girls or Boys, because we're Lesbians! Unfortunately for Lesbian children we have no role models or Lesbian leaders with which to identify with, so like the young Anne, we compare ourselves to Boys. And while the Boy box may be less uncomfy than the Girl box, it isnt until we realize we're Lesbians we find as Lesbians we do not need or want a box. But the path Anne Meredith describes is a path most Dykes have traveled.
"I mean, I know I am a woman, and there's no doubt about it, but all of this stuff that society heaps on girls and women about what it means to be a woman -- I just never bought any of it, so I really don't know how to define myself or where I stand, except I know it's on the fringe. I'm happy there. Totally." 
"I wouldn't be anywhere else. I'd kill myself. That's what 'Losing Chase' is about. It's about me imagining, at twenty, what would I be like if I were forty and I had made some stupid decision to marry some banker guy and live out on the Cape with him? Well, first of all, I'd have a nervous breakdown. Second, I'd be really bitter. I'd be incredibly cynical, I'd take it out on everyone around me. "It was so easy, I wrote that in like two days. It was stream of consciousness, and like a session with a therapist.
Again this is something nearly ALL Lesbians can identify with, that feeling of thinking how is it that I'm a Girl/Woman yet I do not at all function the way they do or are treated the way Girls/Women are? Not yet realizing we arent Girls/Women, but LESBIANS! I remember distinctly as a small child observing Women around me or on TV and thinking, I'll kill myself before I ever end up like them! And it is that precise fear of becoming a Het Woman that creates the Dysphoria Lesbians are so well acquainted with.

Anne ends the interview with this message to future Girls, but its clear from the message, she means Lesbian children:
"Like when they put the boot on your throat, just grab them by the ankle and kick them off. And then beat the crap out of them, dust yourself off and go about your business."
If you've never seen Losing Chase, it is without doubt one of the FEW films out there with a real relatable Lesbian character, even if Chase's choices werent ones we would have made. How Chase functions, IS Lesbian and thats something ALL Lesbians can relate to!

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Dykes are DONE Choking on Shit-Biology Not Only Matters-Its Life or Death


(Het) Women have historically used Lesbians themselves or Lesbian as an idea for their own selfish (Het) privileged reasons. Reasons ALWAYS having something to do with Men! For example: escaping men, turning men on, hating men, bemoaning men, making men jealous, seeking equal rights, even shaming Lesbians for acting like men or not being man enough! All leaving Lesbians DANGEROUSLY Hetsplained to society at large and worse, to each other!

The "lesbian" we desperately sought when young/afraid and starving for from books/films or tv didnt walk/talk or resemble anything we knew ourselves to be. That "lesbian" didnt seem all that different from the (Het) Women we already knew from family/friends/society except she dated similar Women instead of Men. It was as if the ONLY thing that defined her as "lesbian" was dating Women! We knew before we could speak a proper sentence that we were different from Girls, different/alien/alienated. And that difference at age 2 or 3 had NOTHING to do with fucking females!

So if the "lesbians" in our books and in our films and on our tv shows wasnt us, who were we? Who are we? This Hetsplained "lesbian" that (Het) Women perpetuate increased/increases the disconnect Lesbians feel, the incongruousness pushing Lesbians to transition and the confusion already surrounding Lesbian children in a Heterocentric world! Defining Lesbian in terms of nature (Biology) and not (nurture/lack there of-society) does not mean Lesbians hate (Het) females, but it does mean putting Lesbians first as Lesbians!

Lesbian children do NOT think/process like Girls, because we are NOT Heterosexual! Period! Our experiences ARE the experiences ONLY Lesbians can feel, can fully understand and fully appreciate as Lesbians! The Hetspalined/Hetcreated "lesbian" exists ONLY in the minds of Heterosexuals. Two (Het) Women may spend 50 years in a relationship (including sex), but EVERYTHING that exists between those two (Het) Women remains Heterosexual.

If two White people for whatever reason claimed to be Black and were in a relationship, we wouldnt use their relationship/relationship experiences for a Black relationship guide! Nor would we find it offensive for Blacks/Black couples to define their culture/experiences as different from that of the faux Black couple. In fact the Whites trying to usurp Black culture would be given hell and should be! But Lesbians insisting on our BIOLOGICAL/cultural differences from (Het) Women, and the most hateful/abusive/ignominious and Lezbophobic shit is slung at Lesbians by (Het) Women!

We routinely see (Het) Women/Feminists (rightfully so) get pissed off/outraged when there is a headline saying something like "Woman rapes and murders wife" and the woman is in fact a Trans Male! (Het) Women/RadFems/Feminists are upset and these inaccuracies/lies have only been a part of the most recent times. Lesbians are dealing with T H O U S A N D S of fucking years of Hetsplanations! And Hetsplanations thanks to Radical Feminism/Feminism that for the last two and a half decades have displaced biology/unsexed sex and pressured Lesbians into Heterocentric/Heterosocio transition at the very expense of Lesbian lives!

These same (Het) Women freely call us gender non conforming or gender in-congruent because Dykes fail to meet Heterocentric standards of male/female, not because those things are true! LESBIAN IS ITS OWN NORMAL! A Normal that doesnt mimic Heterosexuals (dont fucking flatter yourselves!)!! Lesbians are BIOLOGICALLY created and LESBIANS do function/process information according to our Lesbian brains. Heterosexuals may not like it, Heterosexuals may not believe it but Homosexuals do not fucking care! The Heterosexual world hates us, we know this! What Heterosexuals hate is Lesbians (in this case) holding up a fucking mirror so (Het) Women are forced to take a good long look at their Dyke hatred! We also need young Dykes to know Hets in only VERY tiny instances are truly in our corner. Waving a fucking rainbow flag which no longer holds any Homosexual meaning doesnt ensure solidarity with Dykes.

Flesh, bone and blood Lesbians are done with the Hetsplained self serving R A P E of our name, our lives, our love and our culture! Our Lesbian youths need Lesbian Truth and Trust NOW more than ever and the Hetsplained academicy feministy queery inclusive bullshit can be shoveled down your own throats, Dykes are done choking on YOUR shit!

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Gay Star News Takes Homophobic Mary Beard's Side Against LESBIANS

"God knows there’s already enough homophobia in the world. You don’t want to be adding to it."

This morning when Mrs Dirt notified me that the attacks on Lesbianism/Lesbians by Homophobe
Mary Beard, who flatly stated Homosexuality is NOT biological, (meaning it can only be a whim/choice/something fun to do when you're bored on a Friday night and you havent a date) had been taken up by Gay Star News's own David Hudson in FAVOUR of Mary Beard's HOMOPHOBIC position, the first thing I said was "if a gay or lesbian wrote the article they've got some serious fucking internalized homophobia"! The quote/link that begins this post is from the same David Hudson of Gay Star News, regarding an article he wrote only last year on....wait for it.....wait for it....wait for it....HIS OWN INTERNALIZED HOMOPHOBIA! BINGO!

David began his article on Internalized Homophobia with the question "At what age does one’s internalized homophobia fade away?" and answers himself by saying: 
Clearly THIS morning David Hudson of the Gay Star News has NO problem being a totally fucking HOMOPHOBE! Or maybe being a HOMOPHOBIC dick to Lesbians doesnt count? Hmmm....David continues:
"if someone invented a pill to wipe away internalized homophobia, I’d be the first in line for a prescription.
Why is that internalized anxiety still there? Maybe because homophobia is still there. And because we can still perhaps never predict how someone might react to finding out the fact that one is gay. Because we place undue importance on their opinion of us, we want to control how they find out’ disclosing when we think it’s safe."
Well David, clearly your HOMOPHOBIA is still firmly intact and clearly you still place MORE IMPORTANCE on the opinions of a HOMOPHOBIC History instructor than actual living and breathing Lesbians! That David, makes you a HOMOPHOBE! That not a single Lesbian was contacted by you for our say, that we were quoted out of context, that Miss Mary was quoted to suit hers/your HOMOPHOBIC bent, makes you a shit writer!

  • David Hudson of the Gay Star News: Did you even bother to read my post or did you simply lazily link it for the sole purpose of giving me credit? 
  • David Hudson of the Gay Star News: Did you go back through Miss Mary's Twitter timeline and see the barrage of homophobic attacks/slander that SHE said/orchestrated?
  • David Hudson of the Gay Star News: Did you bother to contact any of the Lesbians involved to get their Lesbian side of the Homophobia?
  • David Hudson of the Gay Star News: Did you even bother to notice it was more than one Lesbian involved? 
  • David Hudson of the Gay Star News: Did you bother to vet the "lesbians" whose Tweets you cited? If you did David, then it isnt just your Internalized Homophobia thats faulty, your Gaydar is too!
  • David Hudson of the Gay Star News: Do you agree with Mary Beard and her onslaught of Homophobic Het/queer followers that Homosexuality is merely a choice and has no bearing on anything outside of who you want to fuck at any given time?
  • David Hudson of the Gay Star News: Do you agree with Mary Beard that even talking about Homosexuality is "crass"? Which btw David Hudson of the Gay Star News, is what this whole homophobic shit storm directed by Mary Beard was designed to cover up. 
  • David Hudson of the Gay Star News: I Tweeted twice today to you David Hudson of the Gay Star News, asking who it was exactly that said Mary Beard was "old" and have yet to receive a single answer from you or Miss Mary. As not a single Lesbian involved (as was noted in my original post) brought up age/agism nor would we given we're all of similar ages and age wasnt the issue, Mary Beard's Less-than-Intelligent-Homosexual-Design was! So Then David Hudson of the Gay Star News is it then honest to say it is ONLY Mary Beard herself who told you that "she objects to people assuming she is ‘an old het lady’"? Based on YOUR quotes by HER, without a SINGLE QUOTE from myself or ANY other Lesbian referring to her as "old"! 
So legally is Mary Beard the one to be held libelous for slanting YOUR articles readership to believe I (a 50 year Lesbian) called a slightly older Women, OLD?
Are you David Hudson of the Gay Star News to be held libelous for slanting YOUR articles readership to believe I (a 50 year Lesbian) called a slightly older Women, OLD?
Or David Hudson of the Gay Star News, should the Gay Star News be held libelous for slanting YOUR articles readership to believe I (a 50 year Lesbian) called a slightly older Women, OLD?
Whether you accidentally stepped into this shit storm David Hudson of the Gay Star News, was willfully led or paid as the case may be, either way David Hudson of the Gay Star News, you need to fucking remember what you wrote last year: "God knows there’s already enough homophobia in the world. You don’t want to be adding to it."

And as of today David Hudson of the Gay Star News, you just added to the over flowing Homophobia Gays and Lesbians are still fucking daily drowning in. Feel better about yourself?

dirt


PS BOYCOTT GAY STAR NEWS!

Edit to add:
This is my Mrs Dirt's personal message to Gay Star News:
 I wanted to tell you that David Hudson's story about Mary Beard is biased, unfair, unbalanced, and completely wrong. He never even researched the history of the Twitter wars involved in this situation; he never contacted ANY of the lesbians who disagreed with Mary Beard; he never presented our side of the issue; he quoted tweets that were defamatory to us; and he implied that we (lesbians) said Mary Beard was old which is completely untrue. If he was going to do a story, the only fair and balanced way would be to present BOTH sides of that story which he did not. Also, how reprehensible to take the side AGAINST lesbians. Shame on him for writing it and shame on you for publishing it. Stories like that reveal the utter lack of ethics in reporting now, and also, sadly, the lack of solidarity between gay men and lesbians. Thank you for listening. This whole debacle has been incredibly stressful, and the LAST thing lesbians needed was to be attacked AND misrepresented by a member of our own "community". 
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Thanks, Anna
We have yet to hear back from them. I encourage Lesbians (and Gay men) to write to Gay Star News about their Homophobic content. If Gay Star News, like Mary Beard believe Homosexuality doesnt exist, then they shouldnt be calling themselves "gay" star news. Write to them here: feedback@gaystarnews.com

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