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  • There is but one cause of human failure. And that is man's lack of faith in his true Self-William James
  •  The great thing, then, in all education, is to make our nervous system our ally instead of our enemy-William James
  • Man can alter his life by altering his thinking-William James

Womens Liberation-Recruiting Lesbians-When the Political Went Personal

Please also see Mrs Dirt's companion piece: Lesbians Do Not Want A Damn Toaster Oven

There is a long standing myth held by general society that Lesbians are a threat to heterosexuals. A threat to heterosexual females because Lesbians are always actively recruiting and a threat to heterosexual men, because it just might be their girlfriend/wives being recruited! Often myth is rooted in some morsel of reality, in the case of Lesbians recruiting women, the myth and the reality are rooted in political Radical Feminism aka STRAIGHTBIANISM!
From the outset of Second Wave feminism/women's liberation, Lesbians were silenced, banished, then Lesbian once emptied of actual Lesbians was used as an idea to house bored house wives and angry women fed up with men. Lesbian then took on a widespread political significance by declaring that "any women can be a lesbian"! A group calling themselves RadicalLesbians begin their 1970's essay The Women Identified Woman by posing the question "What is a lesbian?" and answering "A lesbian is the rage of all women condensed to the point of explosion." Women, particularly younger women were angry to the point of explosion! Angry at the doormat lifestyles they perceived their (unhappy/depressed) mothers to have expected them to inherit, and angry at the sexism that seemed to stop/harass them whether they turned toward higher education, job career or even marriage/motherhood.

Radical Lesbianism promised straight women a utopia they believed they could never obtain from men or with men. A No Man's Land where Lesbian was a multi functional Swiss army's knife, used to give false courage, build a floor board, lay a carpet, gut any man with a sexist compliment or kill any would-be rapist. Radical Lesbians claimed that Lesbians
  • "...cannot expel the heavy socialization that goes with being female, she can never truly find peace with herself. For she is caught somewhere between accepting society's view of her - in which case she cannot accept herself -and coming to understand what this sexist society has done to her and why it is functional and necessary for it to do so. Those of us who work that through find ourselves on the other side of a tortuous journey through a night that may have been decades long. The perspective gained from that journey, the liberation of self, the inner peace, the real love of self and of all women, is something to be shared with all women - because we are all women."
This clearly was not written by a Lesbian anymore than it was written speaking to Lesbians, it is purely heterosexual! Heterosexual women who co-opted Lesbian, then recruited other unhappy/dissatisfied heterosexual women who saw themselves as the hetsplained Lesbian heterosexual women's libbers defined.
  •  "It should first be understood that a category of behavior possible only in a sexist society characterized by rigid sex roles and dominated by male supremacy. Those sex roles dehumanize women by defining us as a supportive/serving caste in relation to the master caste of men...Homosexuality is a by-product of a particular way of setting up roles ( or approved patterns of behavior) on the basis of sex; as such it is an inauthentic ( not consonant with "reality") category. In a society in which men do not oppress women, and sexual expression is allowed to follow feelings, the categories of homosexuality and heterosexuality would disappear."
In other words, remove sexism and sexual orientation would be removed from human biology forever! This is the ignorant simplistic and dare I say feminist ideology that still plagues Radical Feminism today, merely replace sex roles with gender roles.
  • Lesbian is a label invented by the Man to throw at any woman who dares to be his equal, who dares to challenge his prerogatives ( including that of all women as part of the exchange medium among men), who dares to assert the primacy of her own needs.
Radical Lesbian/Feminists completely insult Lesbians by removing Lesbian biology, Lesbian history and assert Lesbian was/is nothing more than a tool used by men to keep women (all women being heterosexual) in line/under the thumbs of men!

Popular Radical Lesbian/Feminists mantras and man hating mottoes used to recruit/ensnare heterosexual women into political lesbianism:
  • Feminism is the theory, lesbianism is the practice-Ti-Grace Atkinson
  • I, personally, have taken the position that I will not appear with any man publicly, where it could possibly be interpreted that we were friends-Ti-Grace Atkinson
  • Since marriage constitutes slavery for women, it is clear that the Women's Movement must concentrate on attacking this institution. Freedom for women cannot be won without the abolition of marriage-Sheila Cronan
  • The simple fact is that every woman must be willing to be identified as a lesbian to be fully feminist-Sheila Cronan
  • I want to see a man beaten to a bloody pulp with a high-heel shoved in his mouth, like an apple in the mouth of a pig-Andrea Dworkin
  • Female heterosexuality is not a biological drive or an individual woman’s erotic attraction or attachment to another human animal which happens to be male. Female heterosexuality is a set of social institutions and practices defined and regulated by patriarchal mores, values, and law-Marilyn Frye
  • When a woman reaches orgasm with a man she is only collaborating with the patriarchal system, eroticizing her own oppression-Sheila Jeffrys
  • I feel what they feel: man-hating, that volatile admixture of pity, contempt, disgust, envy, alienation, fear, and rage at men-Judith Levine
  • You grow up with your father holding you down and covering your mouth so another man can make a horrible searing pain between your legs-Catherine MacKinnon
  • I feel that ‘man-hating’ is an honorable and viable political act-Robin Morgan
  • To call a man an animal is to flatter him; he’s a machine, a walking dildo-Valerie Solanas 
  • I have chosen to use the terms lesbian existence and lesbian continuum because the word lesbianism has a clinical and limiting ring Lesbian existence suggests both the fact of the historical presence of lesbians and our continuing creation of the meaning of that existence I mean the term lesbian continuum to include a range—through each woman’s life and throughout history—of woman-identified experience; not simply the fact that a woman has had or consciously desired genital sexual experience with another woman. If we expand it to embrace many more forms of primary intensity between and among women, including the sharing of a rich inner life, the bonding against male tyranny, the giving and receiving of practical and political support; if we can also hear in it such associations as marriage resistance and the ‘haggard’ behavior identified by Mary Daly (obsolete meanings ‘intractable,’ ‘willful,’ ‘wanton,’ and ‘unchaste’ a woman reluctant to yield to wooing’)—we begin to grasp breadths of female history and psychology that have lain out of reach as a consequence of limited, mostly clinical, definitions of ‘lesbianism-Adrienne Rich
  • Lesbian existence comprises both the breaking of a taboo and the rejection of a compulsory way of life It is also a direct or indirect attack on male right of access to women But it is more than these, although we may first begin to perceive it as a form of nay-saying to patriarchy, an act or resistance It has of course included role playing, self-hatred, breakdown, alcoholism, suicide, and intrawoman violence; we romanticize at our peril what it means to love and act against the grain, and under heavy penalties; and lesbian existence has been lived (unlike, say, Jewish or Catholic existence) without access to any knowledge of a tradition, a continuity, a social underpinning The destruction of records and memorabilia and letters documenting the realities of lesbian existence must be taken very seriously as a means of keeping heterosexuality compulsory for women, since what has been kept from our knowledge is joy, sensuality, courage, and community, as well as guilt, self-betrayal, and pain-Adrienne Rich   
Lesbians were never welcome in Radical Lesbian Feminists groups/movements, but Rad Lez Fem groups/movements sure used the IDEA of Lesbian to house their man hating precepts and recruited using heterosexual shared experiences of sexism, male violence and displeasure with their own sex role. None of which had a single thing to do whatsoever with Lesbians as individuals, Lesbian couples, Lesbian needs, Lesbian Healthcare or basic civil liberties that Lesbians lacked! None of these issues were or are adequately addressed by Radical Lesbian Feminists, then or now. Radical Lesbian Feminists prime focus has always been on men/about men, another clue we werent ever dealing with actual Lesbians, then or now. Man hating/Lesbian recruiting Rad Lez Fems, werent and arent Lesbians and those they recruit are rarely also Lesbian.

Lesbian has merely been a carapace Radical Lesbian STRAIGHT/STRAIGHTBIAN Feminists slummed in where they could mutually bitch, moan and cower, too afraid to stand up to men and too weal to challenge male systems of power, for that you have to actually BE a Lesbian, not just call yourself one!


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  • "But to refuse to be a woman does not mean that one has to become a man, and for her who does want to become a man: in what way is her alienation different from wanting to become a woman?" Monique Wittig

Dara Hoffman-Fox-STRAIGHTBIAN Extra-ordinair-e

In this blogs ongoing efforts to document/display and dissect the harmful ill effects STRAIGHTBIANS have rained upon Lesbians, recruiting has yet to be discussed. In past decades STRAIGHTBIAN recruiting has consisted of RadFems (who are neither radical nor feminist nor lesbian) and other feminist groups trying to reign in more heterosexual members by heralding ANY woman can be a lesbian or choosing to be a lesbian is radical and feminist etc. While DICKsgusting and highly problematic and nevertheless a topic for a near future post, today I'm going to address a more dangerous recruitment that goes beyond Lesbian co-option and STRAIGHTBIAN proximity to Lesbians, it goes to the very heart/beat of Lesbian. And while dealing with a specific STRAIGHTBIAN, bear in mind, she-Dara Hoffman-Fox-is only a shard of the iceberg.
Dara Hoffman-Fox is in her own words: "a Licensed Professional Counselor and a gender therapist in private practice. My hope is to be a part in empowering, encouraging, and supporting transgender and gender non-conforming individuals through education and shared experience."

Our barely accredited dear Dara-wait,lets take a quick peak at her credentials before moving on:
  •  I have a B.A. from the University of Kentucky in Communication, and a M.A. from the University of Phoenix in Community Counseling. In 2010 I completed my requirements towards my LPC licensure (i.e. Licensed Professional Counselor), which is granted by the Department of Regulatory Agencies of Colorado. I am a member of WPATH (World Professional Association for Transgender Health), was the founder of the Transgender Resource Coalition of Southern Colorado, and am listed as a KAP (Kink Aware Professional). I have also been a member of the C.G. Jung Society of Colorado Springs and the LGBT Chamber of Commerce of Colorado Springs.
In other words, Dara has a disk jockey degree, an online degree from the Uof Phlunkies, a license in non specified counseling, a WPATH membership which anyone who pays $210 dollars can obtain, a hippy-dippy Jung Society membership and L gbT chamber of COMMERCE also requiring only a moola for membership, all wrapped in a not so tightly KINK PROFESSIONAL or as we know it-STRAIGHTBIAN bow!

Moving on, STRAIGHTBIAN Dara Hoffman-Fox has put together a self published guide (a guide so poorly written/put together her own publisher father wouldnt publish it) to encourage (primarily) Lesbian youths into transition by helping them discover their TRUE gender identity.

Even though STRAIGHTBIAN Dara doesnt even have the expertise to uncover/understand HER own identity issues:

  • As for my preferred pronoun I am accustomed to “she/her” but am in search of a gender neutral pronoun that I am at ease with. For instance on social media I am using “they/them(she's plural??huh?) to see how it feels! I’m definitely uncomfortable with phrases that are, to me, hyper-female such as “ladies” and “ma’am” and the repetitive use of “she/her.” I like how the term non-binary seems to capture my feelings on that. I also like to use queer to describe myself as well, as I feel it speaks to my sense of gender as being very much about the combination of the masculine and feminine energies within me, as well as encompassing aspects of my sexual orientation.
Based on Dara's own admission in HER video above, she's tried on more outfits/identities (they're one and the same to HER) than a school kid trying on clothes in August! Another such outfit/identity Dara is trying to sport is Lesbian. According to Dara, SHE calls HERself a late-blooming lesbian which she defines as:

  • A late-blooming lesbian, by my definition, is someone who currently identifies as a lesbian but did not come out to either herself and/or others until “later in life.” This is usually after having already attempted to repress her same-sex attractions by being in relationships with men, having children with them, living by appearances a “heterosexual life,” etc.
In STRAIGHTBIAN fashion, Dara Hetsplains Lesbian to fit HER current choices, meaning choices that as choices are subject to change! Sorry Dara, Lesbian is genetically mapped from inception, it is NOT a choice! And where the idea of Lesbian is subject to choice, it is nearly ALWAYS male driven/sexual abuse suffered from a male driven! It was rare in the past for Lesbians to come out later, it is even more rare today. And where those instances are true Lesbians, like all Lesbians they knew from their earliest memories they were Lesbian, even if they didnt have a name for it. They did not choose to be spinsters or partner with men, they instead felt they had exactly NO choice!

Dara Hoffman-Fox made a choice to co-opt Lesbian and is now using HER choice to solicit Lesbian lives through slight of hand propaganda disguised as therapy where vulnerable Lesbian youth are being turned into transgender grist in transgender transition mills. Serving dear Dara in both pocket and warped STRAIGHTBIAN self satisfaction! But dear Dara, even if every Lesbian alive was shoveled into a living transgender grave, you Dara will STILL be STRAIGHT!


Lesbian Bed Death-UnSTRAIGHTening the Lies

Lesbian Bed Death has been proved and disproved in equal turns for years, depending on which s/expert you ask. The trouble is, like EVERYTHING concerning Lesbians, the s/experts are neither s/experts nor Lesbians! And as such, havent the foggiest idea on how to tell who is a Lesbian unless sex between two females is involved, which isnt always indicative of Lesbian.

The criteria used by lesbian s/experts in identifying Lesbians is based solely on (dual) action, as in Lesbian is something women do together, not something we ARE apart. And therein lies the first crucial flaw in Lesbian Bed Death, incorrect data.

The next and most important crucial flaw in Lesbian Bed Death then is, if the legitimacy of the lesbians involved in these hetero-subjective studies/hypothesis cannot be verified, any data collected is tainted/false.

Where Lesbians are concerned, s/experts have yet to trouble themselves with the little detail of are we dealing with 2 Lesbians, 2 STRAIGHTBIANS or a Lesbian and a STRAIGHTBIAN when writing about "lesbian sex" and/or Lesbian Bed Death. Lets be honest, most s/experts would be hard pressed to notice the differences between these couplings, let alone have the capacity to comprehend how STRAIGHTBIAN couplings or Lesbian/STRAIGHTBIAN couplings give inaccurate information on Lesbians/Lesbian relationships/Lesbian sex lives. Unless data comes from TWO Lesbians in a sexual/romantic relationship, ALL data is fictive.

Two STRAIGHTBIANS together most certainly results in a sexually passionless relationship, no matter the number of things they may have in common. Both are and remain romantically and sexually attracted to men, regardless of their CHOICE to couple. Neither are Lesbian, therefore their unrumpled bed isnt Lesbian Bed Death, but STRAIGHTBIAN Bed Death!

A Lesbian and a STRAIGHTBIAN in a relationship may for a short time seem to be passion filled, the Lesbian seems emotionally/physically attracted to the STRAIGHTBIAN and the STRAIGHTBIAN finds the unknown/forbidden exciting, but the STRAIGHTBIAN'S romantic and sexual attraction toward men remains and the fire is extinguished shortly after it flames, even if the coupling continues for years. Again, NOT Lesbian Bed Death because only ONE Lesbian is involved in this coupling.

All studies and schools of thought who have written about Lesbian Bed Death based their pseudo science/self reporting primarily on the above sets of couples, NOT on biological Lesbian couples! When BIOLOGY is absent from romantic couplings, so to is chemistry. Thats not to say any two Lesbians will have romantic chemistry. Our shared biology wont guarantee endless passion and smoldering days and nights, but this is to say, without a shared Lesbian biology, passion isnt even an option.


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Lesbians continue to be the largest minority group erased through the cult of transition, whether age 2 or 52, Lesbians have and are fast disappearing. And outside of a few Lesbians/Lesbian groups working to halt our genocide, every single non Lesbian group/org/psychologists/gender specialists/trans critical professional/gender critical professional/LGBTQ ad nauseam etc is working to speed up our demise.

This signifies not simply our eradication, but our threat to heterosexuals/polite society.

To Lesbians left still alive-BE A THREAT-not a dying ember!


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