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Wednesday, March 4, 2015

Ashlyn Haffner-a Silent Lesbian-NOT a Tawdry Trans

Gay and Lesbian youth have long been a particularly vulnerable population, given a HIGHLY homophobic world and an equally toxic Gender Straight Jacket from which most gays and lesbians naturally stray. Enter Trans Paraphilia Politics/Trans Propaganda and our gay/lesbian youth's vulnerability sky rocketed! Gay and Lesbian youth are now targeted for transition by transgender ran/lead LGBT centers, helplines, school programs, school clubs and school policies. All added to the already historical homophobia from family, church and state. Trans Paraphilia Agenda is not simply skewing important data such as gay/lesbian bashing/bullying and suicides, BUT Trans Paraphilia Agenda are creating those very situations for OUR gay and lesbian youths!!!

Case in point, the recent suicide by a 16 year old lesbian from North Carolina, Ashlyn Haffner. Ashlyn was failed by many, the fanatical religious south, an ineffectual silent Lesbian Community buried beneath an alphabet soup ran and dominated by Trans Politics/Trans policies and a mother who couldnt seem make heads or tails. But the minute Ashlyn throws her young lesbian body in front of a moving vehicle to her death and suddenly she's like FAR too many gay and lesbian bodies/deaths already, a Trans darling!
Her body wasnt even cold before Ashlyn was snatched from her lesbian suffering straight into the mouth and belly of the Trans Agenda beast! Dozens of articles, twitter/tumbl/Facebook and other social media mentions of another "transgender teen suicide." Apparently Ashlyn had been teased/bullied for years which grew worse after shortening her hair, according to her mother. Somewhere between her being bullied and her shortish hair, Ashlyn has suddenly been Pinocchio'd into a transgendered boy!

From a recent article:
Lets take a quick look at Time Out Youth and what support Ashlyn would have found with them and their associations.

Ashlyn was caught between the proverbial rock and a hard place, her lesbian nature not accepted at school (at home?) OR the supposed lesbian friendly youth center shoving religion and Trans(girls with short hair equal boys)Agenda down her fragile throat!

But what did Ashlyn call herself, feel herself and see herself?
Nowhere on any of Ashlyn's many social media outlets did she refer to herself as trans, she claimed gay or lesbian. And NO she clearly wasnt using gay to intimate gay transmale, most lesbians have and still use the general gay to label their sexual orientation due to the many ugly connotations associated with lesbian. Nor did her mother refer to Ashlyn as transgender/transmale, male etc:
Ashlyn's last words also are nothing short of advice for all lesbians:
Yes, do not let "people or society change who you are", lesbians deserve more than the choice of death or death in life via transition. And both gays and lesbians need to reclaim our gay brothers and lesbian sisters (even in death) from the perverted clutches of the Trans Paraphilia Agenda/Community.


"Silent Legacy"


Why did you steal the matches
From the one room motel
Once they gave you answers
Now they give you hell
They will never understand
They wonder where did they go wrong
How could you be so selfish
Why can't you get along

And as you pray in your darkness
For wings to set you free
You are bound to your silent legacy

You've seen it in the movies
And you've heard it on the street
Craving the affection
Your blood is full of heat
They don't listen to your reasons
As original as sin
Deny all that you feel
And they will bring you home again

And as you pray in your darkness
For wings to set you free
You are bound to your silent legacy

Your body is alive
But no one told you what you'd feel
The empty aching hours
Trying to conceal
The natural progression
Is the coming of your age
But they cover it with shame
And turn it into rage

And as you pray in your darkness
For wings to set you free
You are bound to your silent legacy

You are digging for the answers
Until your fingers bleed
To satisfy the hunger
To satiate the need
They feed you on the guilt
To keep you humble keep you low
Some man and myth they made up
A thousand years ago

And as you pray in your darkness
For wings to set you free
You are bound to your silent legacy

Mothers tell your children
Be quick you must be strong
Life is full of wonder
Love is never wrong
Remember how they taught you
How much of it was fear
Refuse to hand it down
The legacy stops here

Oh my child...
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18 comments:

  1. Stop trans-ing the dead! They do this all the time. I can see how this would be a brilliant political ploy. After all, the dead can't speak for themselves. Apparently, any child who was different in some way is posthumously declared "trans". Her hair was short, and she wasn't like other girls. Therefore, she must have been *trans.

    Stop rewriting history

    Resist the colonization and co-option of lesbian and gay identity.

    They intentionally trans* the dead to add to their numbers, and to say that they are the most oppressed people in the world, far more oppressed than anyone else. I know it is crass and insensitive to even say, but they use these tragedies as political tools of sorts.

    This is why rational people should be critical of any statistics coming from transgender sources. A lot of these children are really gay or lesbian, or just kids that don't fit in for some reason.

    According to,
    http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/18981931

    “Most children with gender dysphoria will not remain gender dysphoric after puberty. Children with persistent GID are characterized by more extreme gender dysphoria in childhood than children with desisting gender dysphoria. With regard to sexual orientation, the most likely outcome of childhood GID is homosexuality or bisexuality.”


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  2. Ashlyn was caught between the proverbial rock and a hard place, her lesbian nature not accepted at school (at home?) OR the supposed lesbian friendly youth center shoving religion and Trans(girls with short hair equal boys)Agenda down her fragile throat!

    Spot on!

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  3. Colonizers always rewrite history. This is just another form of it.

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  4. Trans-ing the dead just doesn't happen to gay and lesbian youth. Any young person who is rejects traditional sex roles and stereotypes is often posthumously pronounced trans. This is one of the most blatant trans-ing the dead cases I've read.

    Trans-ing the Dead

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  5. They always give the standard trans* spiel about how transgender people are the most oppressed people in the LGBT when in reality it's basically all transgender and queer. The "L" is only tolerated if they keep their mouths shut, or the butch lesbians just all "transition".

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  6. Suiside numbers amongst our gay youth are sky high.
    But trans keep telling everybody that the trans are the most oppressed group. It's time they take a good look at those numbers and be honest.
    It's disgusting to use Ashlyn this way.

    RIP Ashlyn. I feel so sorry for you, sweet girl. :(

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  7. Found this in the comments on that article:

    "PLEASE SHARE: A STATEMENT FROM ASH HAFFNER'S MOTHER: If you take the time to read Ash's letter to society, which stated "I had a loving mother who FULLY accepted me for who I was and NEVER stopped trying", and gather your facts, you will see that Ash had the FULL support of her family. Additional recent statements posted by Ash stated that she was "having a rough time trying to figure out who she was". That she says "I don't know what I am", I'm confused". That "she's trying to figure it out & just wanted people to BE THERE FOR HER". These statements were addressed to those who made fun of her and did not support her during her time of self discovery. Had Ash decided that the male pronoun "HE" was the preferred pronoun, I as her mother would have been her FIRST and BIGGEST supporter and would have continued to love her unconditionally and honor her choice. At the time of Ash's passing, she did not have a definitive pronoun preference. Therefore, you are not incorrect in whichever pronoun choice you choose to use in however YOU knew Ash. But you ARE INCORRECT in thinking or stating that I am disrespecting my child by not using the specific pronoun "HE" exclusively. I ask that you please have respect for Ash and our family and not continue to pass judgment on her/his identity as society constantly did before her tragic death. I also ask that you refrain from negative posts regarding Ash or her family who FULLY supported her. I also ask that you familiarize yourself with the term "TRANSGENDER" : of or relating to people who have a sexual identity that is not clearly male or clearly female. Those of you who are posting negativity are showing the prime example of what is wrong in our society. You are passing judgment and making statements without even knowing the true circumstances or facts. I "WILL NOT" tolerate any negative slander or false statements by ANY individual, news outlet, media source, etc., printed or spoken and I will deal with any of those issues accordingly. ASH WAS MY WORLD!! Sincerely, April Quick (Ash's mother)"

    It really is rather odd how so many are willing to accept her as transgender, even though it's apparently "the most oppressed" group. Maybe it's because of that? In any case, it's just kind of spooky...

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  8. May this young person rest in peace. I just wish more young people could have access to unbiased counseling.

    As to trans-ing the dead, this is what Dennis, "Allison", Woolbert who was convicted of sexually assaulting a child said about Josh Alcorn's family and their church.

    "Then there is another group that is going into a different set of buildings. They are the ones that believe their children are owned by the parents as if they are property and must conform to a rigid extremist belief system. Just like the Taliban, they will enforce the iron handed ‘law’ and force their children to sit in the pews and become the child that they have tried to force into their ideological mold through coercion, abuse and force."

    Yes, a man convicted of sexually assaulting a child is calling Josh Alcorn's parents and church the Taliban.

    https://www.change.org/p/president-of-the-united-states-enact-leelah-s-law-to-ban-transgender-conversion-therapy/u/9190451

    Trans-ing the dead continues unabated.

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  9. Trans-ing the dead continued....

    This is an online petition to have the name of Josh Alcorn's headstone changed to Leelah. I don't think the parents are behind this because the parents didn't even know he went by the name of Leelah until shortly before his death. Unbeknown to his mother, this poor, emotionally distraught boy went by the online name of "Satan's Wifey - transgender queen from hell". Does this sound like an emotionally stable 17 year old boy? By his own admission, he spent too much time on online transgender websites. Where were his online transgender friends when he was talking about suicide, and what did he learn online?

    Shouldn't the parents get to decide what the name on this teenage boy's headstone? Transgender activists think otherwise.

    https://www.change.org/p/carla-l-alcorn-have-the-correct-name-of-leelah-alcorn-placed-on-her-headstone-in-true-remembrance

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  10. Trans-ing the dead continued...

    ANY young person who is a little different is now transgender.

    If she had short hair, she is transgender.
    If she didn't like wearing dresses, she is transgender.
    If she says she is a lesbian, she is wrong. She is transgender.
    If she like sports, she is transgender.

    BULLSHIT! Stop trans-ing the dead.

    http://www.wsoctv.com/news/news/local/mother-says-bullying-led-daughters-suicide/nkLLr/

    Transgender Wiki calls Ashley, "a transgender boy".

    The news media has ALREADY decided that this teenage girl is a "transgender teen".

    http://www.wsoctv.com/news/news/local/mother-says-bullying-led-daughters-suicide/nkLLr/

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  11. Trans-ing the dead continued....

    As a woman who doesn't conform to traditional sex stereotypes, I need to change my will so that I won't be transed when I'm dead. I want instructions in my will clearly stating that I have never identified as transgender, and I don't want to be referred to as transgender if I die.

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  12. "I also ask that you familiarize yourself with the term "TRANSGENDER" : of or relating to people who have a sexual identity that is not clearly male or clearly female."

    FACT: Transgender activists do NOT have a patent or copyright on all non-traditional behavior, commonly referred to as gender non-conformity. I don't even like the term "gender non-conformity". I prefer to refer to it as human variation, or just being different.

    FACT: For whatever reason, some people have always stepped outside the boundaries of traditional sex roles. They went by many names.

    I am a gender abolitionist. For all practical purposes, gender is culturally dictated sex stereotypes.

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  13. I mourn that this young person never had the chance to discover their own truth. My sadness at their death doesn't depend on whether I think they were a lesbian or a trans boy. And if, as Ash's own mother says, Ashlyn wasn't sure about their own pronouns, then anyone who claims Ash as part of a community defined by a specific gender is factually incorrect.

    It seems to me that this is actually an example of a time when trans people and lesbians should band together. The one thing we know is that Ash was singled out because of gender-nonconformity, something which is common both for people who grow up to be lesbian or gay, and for people who are trans. But, instead of LGBT folks all coming together and fighting for the rights of young people to define their own identities, we just join the mainstream in stepping in and trying to impose our own definitions on dead children.

    So here, you insist that she was a lesbian girl, not a trans boy. The transgender community counts him as another trans youth suicide. But Ash didn't even have a chance to fully form an identity and, to my mind, that is the real tragedy here.

    We can mourn a child lost to gender policing and bigotry, without imposing our own identity politics on their story.

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  14. In all honesty, I don't like placing labels on any child, especially a confused and deeply troubled young person. Having said this, I can say with all certainty that trans-ing the dead is going on. They intentionally do this to boost the numbers of "transgender teen suicides". Whether or not they actually were transgender is irrelevant. It makes them look like they are the most oppressed people ever. News media buys into it and have referred to this young woman as a "transgender teen". Transgender organizations and websites have been calling this young woman a "transgender boy" . This young woman wasn't just transgender. She was a boy too. I wonder if the mother knew she gave birth to a boy? Scroll up to the screen shot of transgeder.wiki. This young woman who also identified as lesbian is now a "boy". I personally believe it's harmful to place labels on confused young people, but I can say with all certainty that transgender organizations have no problem with doing it.

    I mourn for the loss of this young life, and I dislike labels being placed on children and teenagers. I'm just sick and tried of all this trans-ing the dead.

    I also mourn for the loss of this life.

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  15. I can say with certainty that lesbians will rarely, if ever, get any kind of support from the vast majority of LGBT organizations. Everyone knows it's true. It's all about transgender and queer. We aren't allowed to say that perhaps she was deeply depressed because no one, including the trans run "support group", could accept the fact that she identified as lesbian. How do I know this? I know for a fact that lesbians do not get support from LGBT organizations. It's all queer and transgender. Young women either identifying as lesbian, or leaning towards identifying as lesbian, or just not knowing who they are will be told they are transgender. Even after their death, their lesbian identity will be stripped from them. Trans-ing both the live and dead is definitely happening.

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  16. Anonymous, March 6, 1:26 PM, "can say with certainty that lesbians will rarely, if ever, get any kind of support from the vast majority of LGBT organizations. Everyone knows it's true." Indeed, we do know it's true. It was true ten years ago, when they/we were "LGB" organizations, it was true twenty years ago when we were "L&G", thirty years with "G&L", and forty years with the supposedly inclusive "G". Even in the 1950s the Daughters of Bilitis were aware enough of the problem to split from the Mattachine Society.
    A gay man advocating lesbian separatism? Sadly, yes. Long may individual solidarity and friendship exist between lesbians and gay men, and concerted joint action where appropriate, but lesbians have always drawn the short straw in mixed organizations, stop being suckers.
    I know this is simplistic, there are many good reasons why lesbians work in mixed organizations: access to resources, political leverage etc etc, so I leave it to others to draw out those points.

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  17. The teen’s death would come as she was said to be slowly morphing into a man, despite holding on to the notion that they were a female and somehow breaking taboos by choosing to date other females.

    Which is to wonder aloud is one bound by their biological disposition or can one choose to ascribe their preferred identity and take steps towards realizing it? Even in the face of those who find such stands threatening or beyond acceptable socio norms.

    http://scallywagandvagabond.com/2015/03/ashlyn-haffner-tormented-transgender-teen-kills-self/

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  18. There is no such thing as a "biological disposition"

    Too much sedentary internet time, hipster bs and weed.

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