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Friday, October 31, 2014

Listen to your GIRL Gut

I received this message a few days ago:
This woman spent less than 20 minutes on this blog, looking at only one post and the front page:
I highlight this as a typical example of hundreds of comments/emails etc this blog receives. Their visceral gut fear/anger precludes some readers from reading further, asking themselves why they had such a violent reaction or worse wanting to be violent toward me. The information here, the deep/wide concepts, the sociological histories, case histories, case studies, histories of mental illness/asylums and pseudo cures, systems of patriarchy and misogyny in specific forms and subtle, these arent subjects for the faint of heart anymore than they are subjects that can be devoured in twenty minutes no matter the appetite. Some of such subjects I have in one way or another studied for over forty years, others I have lived for at least forty seven. NONE have I spent the length of time it takes to bake a cake on, nor would I ever be so bold as to criticize something I had.

That gut feeling is something we all have, only as females from our earliest years we are taught, even pressured, NOT to listen. Ignore our fierce reactions, never asking why. Whether its seeing a man walking toward us on the street and our gut whispers 'cross the street, do not walk past this man'. Women have for centuries ignored their gut's keen advice, only for some of them to end up raped or worse, killed. All because we're conditioned to override our gut screaming at us, over possibly insulting a man.

We also have intense gut reactions to the things we read. Only in these instances females quickly cross the proverbial street, practically breaking their necks getting to the other side. It makes little difference whether females are on birth control hormones or testosterone, avoid the scary words like trick or treat children tonight are avoiding the scariest houses. Females are conditioned instead to listen to our hearts, there are a litany of songs sung to this notion. On this All Hallows Eve, I dare you to change your conditioned past by listening to your girl gut, for a far better future.

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18 comments:

  1. "LGBT+"... Or worse, one I saw the other day, "LGBTQIA+" ... WTF? No one asked me if I see asexuals, het deviants (what they have redefined it to mean), and everyone but some mythical Ozzie and Harriet as part of the lesbian and gay community. It's hard enough to make common cause with gay men. Many times we can't because of their misogyny. And intersex people have made it clear they don't want to be lumped in with trans either. It's trans hets who made up this alphabet mess, not lesbians. They need to stop pretending they have anything to do with us, or that they give a shit about us. They don't. They just want to exploit the work we've done and then throw us under the bus.

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  2. So you're saying trans het people are real? and a distinguishable category from lesbians?

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  3. Oh hey dirt you should google "Transmisogyny" people are gonna get confused cause thats actually something YOU are. Although I admit the google definitions that come up are way way way too narrow. Let Me know what you think everyone!!! :D

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  4. So you're saying trans het people are real? and a distinguishable category from lesbians?

    Heterosexual males who "identify as women" are NOT lesbian. They are just dudes in dresses who like chicks. Many of these guys have wives, ex-wives, children, etc.

    See this tall guy in the skirt. He is a heterosexual male.

    https://gendertrender.files.wordpress.com/2014/08/510px-senator_ben_cardin_and_dana_beyer_-_march_2012.jpg

    So is this guy...

    https://gendertrender.files.wordpress.com/2014/10/dana-mccallum-photo.jpg

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  5. They need to stop pretending they have anything to do with us, or that they give a shit about us. They don't.

    Many of the straight males who "transition" in mid-life did diddly squat for gay men and lesbians. Before they "transitioned" in their thirties or forties, they distanced themselves from gay men and lesbians. Now, straight men who "identify as women" run every major LGBTQIA organization.

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  6. Oh hey dirt you should google "Transmisogyny" people are gonna get confused cause thats actually something YOU are.

    Oh, hey November 1, 2014 at 2:58 PM, you should google homophobia and misogyny because that is exactly what the lesbian phobic and misogynistic "Cotton Ceiling" was all about.

    http://factcheckme.wordpress.com/2012/03/13/the-cotton-ceiling-really/

    Telling lesbians that they are bigoted, ignorant prudes for not wanting penis is exactly what homophobic people do.

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  7. "And intersex people have made it clear they don't want to be lumped in with trans either."

    Every major intersex organization makes a distinction between intersex (disorders of sexual development) and transgender. Still, this doesn't stop trans organizations from shamelessly co-opting their identity. It was trans* activists who were behind inserting "I" into LGBTQIA. There is nothing or no one that these people won't colonize and co-opt.

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  8. @5:32 PM

    I was only trying to inform, Transmisogyny was a term coined by a transactivist, I don't think Dirt means to be using it. It makes her look like an ignorant ass.

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    1. If trans women are just women, then why isn't transmisogyny just misogyny? Because it's worse when men experience it?

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  9. "Many of the straight males who "transition" in mid-life did diddly squat for gay men and lesbians. Before they "transitioned" in their thirties or forties, they distanced themselves from gay men and lesbians. Now, straight men who "identify as women" run every major LGBTQIA organization."

    You just picked out the most privileged group in a population of people who have been desolate, beaten, ignored, raped, and left to die on the streets of our society for centuries and started talking about what all has and has not been done for us and gay men... by them.

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  10. Make the clear distinction between what population of trannies gets beaten, raped and left out on the streets. Sure ain't the elder white dudes,formally executives or statesman, pretending to be women and over running women's organizations, just like het men with privilege do.

    Then co opting the network of formerly women's support orgs to shine the light brightly on the male trans population, and all the (boo boo) discrimination they face. That is the very definition of transmisogny.

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  11. New readers keep coming and stating that Dirts isn't educated on the subject. Typical trans, if you don't agree with them, then you're not educated.

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  12. I am an American man, and I have decided to boycott American women. In a nutshell, American women are the most likely to cheat on you, to divorce you, to get fat, to steal half of your money in the divorce courts, don’t know how to cook or clean, don’t want to have children, etc. Therefore, what intelligent man would want to get involved with American women?

    American women are generally immature, selfish, extremely arrogant and self-centered, mentally unstable, irresponsible, and highly unchaste. The behavior of most American women is utterly disgusting, to say the least.

    This blog is my attempt to explain why I feel American women are inferior to foreign women (non-American women), and why American men should boycott American women, and date/marry only foreign (non-American) women.

    BOYCOTT AMERICAN WOMEN!

    www.boycottamericanwomen.com

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    1. With the exception of 'steal half your money' (which is dubious anyway) you've just described men to a T. Don't cook or clean, don't care for kids, they get fat and cheat on you etc etc. good riddance!

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  13. "BOYCOTT AMERICAN WOMEN!"

    Bait ain't gonna work. You're on a mostly lesbian blog,pal. Nobody gives a flying fuck.

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  14. FreeFromSexPozziesNovember 2, 2014 at 9:56 PM

    I would be THRILLED if these guys would boycott us! We do not need you, nor want you, even the non lesbians.

    I only feel bad for the other non American women you will exploit, and you will, because you have to exploit to get any female attention..

    I sure hope this boycott comes with an order of "non contact"!!!

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  15. "Boycott American Women"

    Woo hoo! Just wait until you find out that (some) Chinese women are waay more materialistic than American women and will not want liberation but boss the man and dictate his money.

    I have several liberated male acquaintances that married Asian. There is a higher divorce rate with inter-cultural marriages, and like one of my male friens who got a Chinese bride says, "We fight as bad as my first American wife, but I cannot understand what she says in rage. It's War of the Chrysanthemums, not Roses".

    Ha ha. Let them Boycott American women. Lesbians don't care!

    And, let them find out for themselves that married American feminists and their partners report highest sexual satisfaction. Well, don't tell them.

    Let them eat #*I""Y#(@.

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  16. Boycott American women, please. Have you considered boycotting all women? That would be welcomed idea.

    Then, find a turnip to mate with and leave us all alone.

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