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Tuesday, April 16, 2013

Trans Sexism-still the same old sexism!

Why are 2/3's of the 100 Trans Americans you should know autogynephilic Males? While I clearly am against the barbaric treatment of GID, I am still fucking disgusted with the continued blatant sexism within the Trans Politic and the Trans Community. Autogenephilic males dominate, dictate and make all decisions about everything trans related, while trans females stand idly by twiddling their hairy thumbs. The clothing may have switched sides, but the male sexism remains very firmly intact. Proof positive transition isnt transgressive, merely transmogrificative.

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  1. Wow. I just found this blog. This is almost paralyzingly depressing.

    Whoever you are, I feel sorry for you. I'm unable to hate you, I'm simply confused. Where does all that hate and bitterness come from? Who hurt you?

    Whatever it was that happened to you, I carefully suggest that you let go. Just let go. Move on. Something hurt you, but it doesn't mean that you have to keep hurting others for the rest of your life.

    Because that's what you're doing. You are hurting others. You aren't helping anyone, not even yourself.

    This is your life. You don't get other chances. Now, just breathe out and let life begin again. Drop the hatred, because it isn't making you feel better; in fact, it's making you hurt even more.

    Trust me; I know what I'm talking about.

    Love is all we need.
    I wish you luck,
    q

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  2. Love must begin with the self, and it cannot be found in a vial bottle.

    dirt

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  3. Sometimes hate reaches the point where it becomes an illness. Try to understand: what you're doing is hurting a lot of people. I'm pretty sure someone has committed suicide partly due to what you have written. You're leaving a lot of hate and sadness behind you. Devote all that passion to helping others, not hurting them! I'm not trying to offend you: you need to wake up before it's too late. If you continue living like this, the only thing you'll ever achieve in your life is making innocent people unhappy, making yourself unhappy, and giving feminism a bad name.

    Wake up. I don't know if you realize this, but to someone who finds your blog, you come across as a terrifying person; definately not a bad person, but someone who is very unhappy and full of pain. This is not the only path you can walk. I feel terrible for you, but there is hope. You can let go.

    Please. Stop for a while. Try to look at your actions from an outsider's point of view. Take a little walk. Think. And then the most difficult part: be honest to yourself.

    Life is there, and it's waiting for you.

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  4. The trans leaders in the local trans comunity I am part of are female bodied genderqueers and a few FTM's.
    I am the only one that is MTF in my local area that could be considered as part of the leadership.

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  5. q,

    If someone said to you, "love and accept yourself as you are", would you perceive that as hate? Because that is all Dirt is saying to young women and girls. Over and over, her message is, "YOU ARE FINE JUST AS YOU ARE!!" So, why do you translate that into something hateful?

    You do know it's literally impossible to change your sex? Surgery and hormones only change one's appearance. Salesmen have always preyed upon personal insecurities to sell goods and services to people. Doctors make millions from people who hate their bodies and yet you trust their opinion over someone who gains nothing from stating an opposing view regarding trans theory.

    Sorry q, but contrary to your belief, Dirt does NOT hate trans people, they hate themselves and that is something they should really work on.

    -B.G.

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  6. Funny. I hated myself. Until I stopped hiding in denial and came out as trans. I tried living as a woman for 20 years. Only made me hate myself more.

    I would think you folks, of all people would know you can't be what you're not. Especially for other people. What a miserable life that would be, no?

    Coming out lifted a great weight off my chest. The truth will set you free.

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  7. Hiding behind a facade isnt truth and clearly you're not free.

    dirt

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  8. "If someone said to you, 'love and accept yourself as you are', would you perceive that as hate? Because that is all Dirt is saying to young women and girls. Over and over, her message is, "YOU ARE FINE JUST AS YOU ARE!!"

    Yes, young transmen are fine just as they are. They are transmen, have always been transmen, and will always be transmen. They are not young girls any more than Dirt is a heterosexual woman. We all have the right to be what we are. Transmen know who they are a lot better than Dirt. They have the right to seek happiness, and find it.

    Trying to live as a 'young girl' when that's simply not what you are is violence. Telling someone who is struggling with their identity that everything they are is wrong, is one of the most horrible things you can do to another person.

    What Dirt is saying is clearly that it's impossible to be transgender; that this type of condition does not exist. But how can you ignore scientific reality and the personal experience of thousands and thousands of people?

    Some people are born transgender. That is a biological fact. Some people are born gay. That is a biological fact too. No one has the right to tell a transgender person or a gay person that their identity is 'wrong'. If Dirt finds herself gay, then I have no right to tell her that 'actually' she's just a heterosexual woman 'living in denial'.

    What Dirt is doing is chronic bullying, and I find this extremely disturbing. Where does all this pain come from? Why is it important for her to make trans people suffer, or, as she puts it, make them realize that their identity is wrong? If trans identity is just delusion, then it is healthy delusion; I know many people who have transitioned, and not a single one of them has ever expressed any remorse.

    In fact, I see people who are finally living the life they always wanted. The pain in their eyes is gone. They are happy, and that's all that matters.

    You, on the other hand, are bullies.

    You are making others unhappy. You are making yourselves unhappy.

    This doesn't have to be everything you are.

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  9. Wrong, my being a lesbian isnt dependent upon mutilative surgeries and drugs.

    No one is "born trans", trans ONLY occurs through drugs.

    And critical analysis isnt "bullying", if you feel bullied you might want to seriously consider why.

    dirt

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  10. Being trans is an inner, deeply personal experience. It isn't dependent upon any drugs or any surgeries. In fact, many feel that after transitioning, they STOP being trans and become simply men and women, with no need for a prefix.

    If you want to 'critically analyze', stop using extremely hateful and insulting language. You are not stupid. You know that the way you behave is highly inappropriate. The way you write about sentient individuals is appalling. Be honest to yourself: the fact is that you have devoted your life to hurting innocent individuals. And that is chronic bullying.

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  11. So are any and all mental disorders, nothing new there. I devote my life to feminism which harms ONLY patriarchy and its ill norms. The same "norms" that create this disorder.

    dirt

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  12. Sometimes hate reaches the point where it becomes an illness. Try to understand: what you're doing is hurting a lot of people. I'm pretty sure someone has committed suicide partly due to what you have written. You're leaving a lot of hate and sadness behind you. Devote all that passion to helping others, not hurting them! I'm not trying to offend you: you need to wake up before it's too late. If you continue living like this, the only thing you'll ever achieve in your life is making innocent people unhappy, making yourself unhappy, and giving feminism a bad name.

    What a terrible thing to imply.
    I can't believe that you mean this. It sounds immature and rude.

    Dirt isn't bullying, Dirt wants to create awereness by young woman who are about to do something they can't reverse at a young age. YouTube is full of pro transgender movies, they make it sounds like it's cool to transition.
    All Dirt does is warn them and telling things about transitioning that most don't wanna hear (like health risks).

    It's very healthy to hear other voices too. These girls are very young and Dirt wants to warm them out of love for women.
    It's not like these young girls get their tongue pierced, it's serious business we're talking about.

    If people don't wanna hear this stuff, then why reading it? Nobody forces the to come here, it's not a text you stumble upon when you're waiting for the bus.


    Big

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  13. Anon @11.52,
    The whole trans concept just popped up about 100 years ago, it's a very well-documented part of recent history. You can be sure the "older" Lesbians will be looking very critically at something like this going on in society which affects so many young Lesbians. No one is ever "born in the wrong body" nor can they change their sex. And profoundly altering your healthy body,taking hormones and mimmicking the stereotypical behavior of the opposite sex won't change your core.
    Germany

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  14. Anon @ April 18, 2013 at 9:32 AM

    Regarding your statement: "I would think you folks, of all people would know you can't be what you're not."

    We understand that point very well, but do trans people grasp it? Please elaborate as to how one changes their chromosomes or actually acquires a working reproductive system of the opposite sex? Which are the very things that are used to identify one's sex and not your inner, changeable and deluded feelings.

    There are no transmen, but there are women with deeply internalized misogyny who view their female body as a weed that needs to be eradicated. They think that by destroying their body, or parts of it, they will somehow be set free. What a load of bullshit!

    The body is not an ornament, it's an instrument. It should be treated with respect and not be rearranged to please a misguided aesthetic. The fact that so many trans people will literally trash their health to create an optical illusion tells you they are not well psychologically.

    -B.G.


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  15. @B.G.

    Changing ones chromosome is an obvious impossibility.

    The point of transition is not just to be *perceived* as ones gender but to become more comfortable in ones body. After all, it is we who will have to deal with the feeling of not being in the correct body, or not having the right parts. Not you.

    If someone chooses to go that route, that's their personal choice.

    You can call me deluded all you want. I prefer enlightened, or open minded.

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  16. “Pretty Sure,” If I was Dirt I would laugh, nice try. The whole suicide bit is getting really old. Suicide is a personal choice that everyone has. The rest of the world will go on living, and having relationships and creating art and music—it will not come to a weeping screeching halt. Try to grasp that Trans are not the center of anyone’s universe. I would say thank goodness he only killed himself and did not take anyone with him. So there you have all my heart felt sympathy--Dirt is doing an amazing job—she cares about children. As opposed too most men, in pretty bits, in the hard compulsive flush of themselves. I have no doubt that Dirt has a rather full life.

    Do you seriously think this kind of childish manipulative posturing and lies are believable to mature critical minds? To educated people who can read all the studies that say there is not biological reality to support: any of it. Reality and truth are not hate. You are the hater throwing phony made up accusations.

    Remember: “The further a society drifts from the truth, the more they will hate those who speak the truth.” Orwell. So that you hate Dirt is no wonder.

    The sheer idiocy: “Try to understand: what you're doing is hurting a lot of people. I'm pretty sure someone has committed suicide partly due to what you have written.”

    Oh really, quick stop the presses, should Dirt feel like weally bad. Oh please say more—
    Did you go to the funeral? Open casket? And and say it-- they had taken a blunt stone and tried to cut off their penis because it was just so unbearable? —Screw you. Dirt is doing a social service and cares about women and children.

    Okay. Death by blog. Death by truth. Death by reality.Yikes-- But how of how to make all this death stop? Maybe the remedy is a not woman saying a man is a women. That, my friend, (really no you are not a friend, you lack the intelligence) infringes on our right to have our own healthy understanding. I am not trading my healthy realty to humor, or be “miss nice” to some man with a delusion. That is not happening in this lifetime. Women have the right to call ‘em as we see em. And you want to say that causes people to kill themselves. Okay—it is not going to silence us. The fact is, and pay attention—men can’t become women, and women can’t become men. If someone want to play dress up and have cosmetic surgery that’s all it is.

    Women saying that we do not believe is called science. Now maybe you boys have some LSW or MSW buying the twisted tale woe but autogynphila as much as a turn on for a man all gussied up is not something that falls out of the realm of fetish in most peoples book—cross dresser you really can’t slip into the category of “a birth defect” save that story for your internet buddies. Dirt is feminism, smart, caring and spot on. You on the other hand just want to manipulate women and try to shame them by calling them names and laying some absurd shame tactis that are laughable. I really hope that you are not older than 14 because if you are then I would run not walk to get help. In the not so distance future blogs like this will stand as recognizing the utter nonsense and calling it out. The ones that bought into the whole gender conformity will be a footnote—like people who had lobotomies, or claims of multiple personality disorder. In short asking women to honor your dick, that may or may not have been changed into a blind pouch (which is an inverted dick) is not going to happen—we will not call it Mr. Bigg, we will not call it Miss Pussy—grow up and deal with it.

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  17. You people are so full of pointless hate. Call it "critical analysis", but you're just deluding yourselves. Come on, be honest to yourselves! Dirt has wasted years and years of her life bullying people who just want to be happy.

    Now many of them have found happiness, but what about Dirt? She's sitting in front of her computer full of bitter words, day after day, month after month, year after year -- has this made her happy? Will she be able to look back in her life and say that this was the way she wanted to live? Come on.

    I feel sorry for you. Hatred not only hurts the victim, but also the one who's full of it.

    Maybe this is pointless. You are trapped and afraid of the possibility to step out and see the sun.

    You are harming others and you are harming yourselves. I'll go out and continue living my life, and I hope you give that a try too. This is your life, people! You matter! I matter! Let's stop hating each other! Let's just let go! Life can be beautiful :)

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  18. Anon@6:35pm Who said "The point of transition is not just to be *perceived* as ones gender but to become more comfortable in ones body."

    How does name changes, legal sex changes or pronoun changes affect how you feel about your body??? Transition is about MUCH more than physical change.

    dirt

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  19. Anon@8:33am, I agree, love yourself! STOP HATING YOUR MINDS AND BODIES!!!

    dirt

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  20. I'm really getting tired of these people talking about "hate" in regards to Dirt and her blog. What is hateful about her wanting to put a spotlight on how people are destroying their bodies? They put themselves on the internet for public view. Reading Dirt's blog helped me reconsider living a life dependent upon doctors and surgery and hormonal hell. Thanks Dirt!

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  21. Anon @: April 20, 2013 at 11:50 AM

    Amen, sister, amen!

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  22. "What is hateful about her wanting to put a spotlight on how people are destroying their bodies? "

    Um, suggesting that we are more likely to be child molesters and rapists, while ignoring all the cases of lesbian pedophilia in her own community. In order to support gender non-conforming women, Dirt does not need to take her argument to a level that reveals her insanity and hatred, but she does because she can't help herself. She is more filled with hatred for transmen than she is with love for women. That's obvious, because everything she does and says serves to make those considering transition rightfully suspicious of her motives instead of embraced by sister-love. They look at her, and you, and say, "what the fuck is wrong with this lady?" because their instinct for self-preservation is too strong. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being trans or transitioning. Once you figure that out, you sill be ashamed of your words and actions here for years to come. Goodbye!

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  23. "The point of transition is not just to be *perceived* as ones gender but to become more comfortable in ones body."

    Sigh! I'll be comfortable in my body once I use that shampoo/hair dye/deodorant. I'll be comfortable in my body once I work out. I'll be comfortable in my body when I get through with Weight Watchers. I'll be comfortable in my body once I have these wrinkles smoothed out with Botox. I'll be comfortable in my body once I've had that leg wax, that makeover, that boob job, that tooth job. I'll be comfortable in my body once I get my tits lopped off. I'll be comfortable in my body once...

    You know it never, ever, ends. There is always someone waiting to sell you something more, just one thing more, that will make you comfortable in your body.

    And in the end, if we live long enough (and there have been times when I thought the only way to be comfortable in my body would be to end my association with it), all our bodies fail and fade and fall away, inevitably.

    You're looking for comfort in the wrong places, honey.

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