Would a Lesbian date a Transman?

Since this question leads many to this space, I'll deign to definitively answer: No we dont!

But it is not because trans bio-females are not women.

Not even because trans bio-females work to visually drug and mutilate all traces of their womanhood from their bodies.

It is because trans bio-females do not love the woman that they are and remain, no matter how much they direct their family's/society's/church's and patriarchy's hatred towards their once perfect bodies.

Fight misogyny. Love your body. Love other women. And learn to let other women love you, all of you, soul AND body.

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Childhood Sexual Abuse, Rape and Transmale Behavior (a Speculation)

Since facts are so difficult to come by with regards to anything trans related, lets speculate a bit on the known facts. I have be notified/written about close to a dozen cases of trans bio-females who have either raped another woman, deceived under age girls into (statutory rape) sex and one that demanded her female partner act out her sexual abuse as a child with the trans bio-female playing the adult male molester. In each and every case it came to light that these trans bio-females were either molested as children by an adult male or raped by an adult male at some point before transition.

My questions to you are: Do you feel in these cases or those like them, that the feelings of female shame and female inferiority (both real and imagined) helped to produce the trans disorder? And do you feel once under the dangerous influence of testosterone, coupled with societal notions of rape as something (real) men do to females, that in a warped sense these trans bio-females were/are trying to over come what was done to them by depicting their superiority by doing the same thing to another female?

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Trans Trending-Who is Transitioning

http://www.youtube.com/channel/UCmMhg_fodtZFHz4zTo_Skag (age 19)

http://www.youtube.com/user/LandonWallaceFTM (age 19)

http://www.youtube.com/channel/UCw521T7E69f9NwWdVcEZxSA (age 17)

http://www.youtube.com/user/tommyattack (age 19)

http://www.youtube.com/user/tylerscarfe (age 17)

http://www.youtube.com/user/SkywalkerDwayne (age 15)


http://www.youtube.com/user/TheSkilllzerTard (age 14)


http://www.youtube.com/user/mellamoADAM13 (age 15)

http://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqI-8XXYWEwbNXq7vPqu4Kw (age 18)

From our earliest historical records, including biblical, hetero-patriarchal society has unashamedly, even violently and ruthlessly sought to change lesbians and gays. The most important element that came out of the Stonewall Rebellion was the very public stand that gays and lesbians were NOT going to change, instead we were going to change society! And several years later through collectively marching, protesting and politicizing we did just that, beginning with homosexuality being removed as a mental disorder from the DSM.

For the next several decades we continued in this same unapologetic mode, sometimes taking a few steps forward and sometimes falling a few steps back, but none the less we kept marching on. And we did so because we KNEW we deserved to exist just as we are, NOT how hetero-patriarchal society said we should be! Even those gays and lesbians who bore societies shame to the bone, knew (intellectually) that their deep shame was a result of a society that ignored, rejected and invisibilized them! This knowledge while not helping to alleviate that deep shame in the immediate, did urge those gay and lesbian sufferers of dysphoria to embrace their differences till relief and pride came around.

The backlash against feminist gains and the very notion of feminism that began with Reagan's election and culminated with Post modernism birthing Queer Theory laid the foundation gay and lesbian youths are stumbling upon today. Gone is the anger to change a still very homophobic society and instead is an internal anger to change the self! None of these girls we see here week after week, year after year once mention in their videos questioning society, questioning that something is wrong with society. Instead all their hatred, anger, violence is directed solely at themselves! Selves they believe are wrong. Wrong because all the sign posts that hetero-patriarchal society and the Gender Straight Jacket has impaled in every conceivable space and direction signifies it is they who are wrong and they who need changing.

Sadly we are currently living in a society that urges us to narcissistically focus all our attention on ourselves rather than the ills of society. Unfortunately the ageist, sexist, racist and homophobic male medical machine that has long colluded with hetero-patriarchal society, for a price, can change what we're too fearful to question and have become too afraid to change.

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Ira Gray-Another FTM Rapist?

Earlier I was sent a message about a supposed trans bio-female (ira gray) serial rapist and "trans community leader" from AZ. From what I gather, it seems a handful of various women (both trans bio-females and females) have come forward accusing this Ira Gray of RAPE. Being ignorant of the flurry of tumbr activity regarding these rape accusations, I simply went straight to the horses mouth to see what this Ira gal had to say for herself, if anything.

From Ira's own lips/computer:

Ira begins her response to these rape charges by charging her rape accusers with accusing her of rape simply because she (as a female who passes as male) now has male privilege. Ira infers that these accusers are angry and jealous over her T acquired male privilege and therefore must be using these rape allegations as a means to knock her back to her female peg . She then tries to utilize the old I'm-not-a-racist-because-I-have-black-friends card by claiming she too has been a victim of sexual abuse herself, so therefore there is no way she could possibly be a rapist.

Next comes what I can only call a very serious rapist excuse for rapist behavior. She lays claim that if she misreads or ignores clear NO's or signals for No's, it isnt her fault, she has perception issues.

She goes on with the worst possible excuse I think I have ever heard/read in my entire fucking life! And I quote: "THERE'S NO SUCH THING AS 100% GOOD CONSENT". Talk about a misogynist's mantra for lawful rape! She sickeningly continues with blaming her failed understanding of consent with the poor teachings of "workshops" and books she's read. I dont know about you, but personally I have never attended a workshop on consent nor read copious amounts of books on consent, nor to my knowledge have any of the men and women in my life, and yet neither they nor I have ever raped or been accused of rape! You?

She concludes with admitting to "perpetuating" rape and misogyny, yet closes with "I am not a rapist though". That though speaks volumes doesnt it?

I myself will conclude with this, despite not having read any first hand accounts by accusers or spoken to them personally, based solely on Ira's own account, one thing is clear, she at the very least has the mental landscape that has paved the road to all rapes.

And to those in the gay and lesbian community, specifically in AZ, this is a person who works closely with our gay and lesbian youth. Something to think about.

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Edit to add this link.