Chaz Bono-Dancing with the Stars and the Promotion of Misogyny

A friend received this screen cap in her email and forwarded it to me:

In this mass email sent by the Transgender Law Center  , they conveniently use both  Carson Kressley ( a gay celeb) and the repeal of Dont Ask/Dont Tell to bind together gay/lesbian/issues, in order to promote female self hater and long time wannabe celeb "Chaz" Bono (now in the never ending cycle of transition) to legitimate transition to the general public.

You weekly see here how YouTube alone is negatively affecting our female youths (trans trenders) who have no visible role models amid the conservative backlash against feminism by the advancement of hyper femininity/sexuality. Teens and young women have literally been left with what appears to be two options, the notion of transitioning to "male" or adapt to the masturbatory IDEA of woman, both of which in reality are unattainable. But celeb wannabe "Chaz" publicly parading herself weekly on Dancing with the Stars will send a sad sick message of trans possibility to all those girls and young women suffering, questioning and pondering where and how the hell they can ever fit into conservative hyper feminine role that is everywhere we look.

The Trans Law Center is also claiming that "Chaz" is receiving "hate mail" for her appearance on DWTS. While I do not doubt that she likely has, nowhere have we seen the Trans Law Center EVER announcing to the Trans community to refrain from making similar threats of violence and death to anyone (including myself) who dares to shed some sun on the reality known as "transition".

You can also see in the screen cap, this Trans Law Center also begrudges the progress of the repeal of DADT with regards to gays and lesbians, because the trans community has made no such progress. While that is certainly unfortunate, I have written about this particular issue as far back as a decade ago. And in that decade there has yet to be a single political movement by the trans community to serve in the military, while gays and lesbians have publicly fought and died for that right since the second World War.

The Trans Law Center goes on to whine that in 35 states they have no job protections based on "gender identity". The fact is, once in the constant transitional state, with their legal sex changed, they have MORE rights than many out gays or lesbians. If they are legally male or legally female they have the very same rights as any man or woman. Once transmen begin "passing" as male, they immediately receive male privilege both in and out of jobs, and for transwomen who do not "pass" (which is most) they continue receiving the male privilege they were accustomed to from birth.

Using gays and lesbians and our issues we have fought and died for for more years than I have been alive by the Trans community is sick and pathetic. It also signifies in yet another instance just how little this community has in common with gays and lesbians and how even more meager they are invested in our progress.


But most importantly unnecessary medical "treatment" should NEVER be a choice making up for a lack of necessary social change. And utilizing the daughter of a celeb to do so is not only fucking sad, it is fucking abhorrent.

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Female Child Rape and Transition

Anyone remotely familiar with trans communities/sites/forums is equally familiar with the significant groups, discussions and transmen who admit to having been raped as little girls/young teens. I've never seen any admit that their abuse had anything to do with their desire to transition, in fact one often sees the exact opposite.

Can females of child rape develop GID? Should females raped as children be allowed to transition? Are females of child rape who do transition fake transmen? If "yes" to the last question, tell us what a REAL transman is.

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Sexing the World Around Us

What are some of the non biological things that enter into our every day that have been sexed as male (boy/man) or sexed as female(girl/woman) that consciously and unconsciously shape/affect how we think about biological males and females, including ourselves? And if you would like to go a step further, add if those things shape our view of males and females in positive respects or negative respects, give examples.

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Gender Specialists/Therapists Pressuring Women to Stay with Transmen

A woman recently emailed me regarding her concerns, and displeasure at her partner transitioning. After exchanging a few emails she told me this when she expressed those same worries to her partners therapist:

The therapist is now trying to get her to see another therapist at the same clinic to HELP her adjust to her new man's fractured mind and body. She smartly saw through the bullshit and has declined therapy at this "pro-trans" clinic. Thank god for her!

I'm glad this woman chose to come out about this, its very brave of her. We're hearing more and more stories like this, "gender specialist" and "therapists" trying to "counsel" lesbians into staying with a female partner who has transitioned. It signifies the still very much alive notion even in psychiatry, that lesbianism isnt legitimate and that all we need is the "right man" to straighten us out, even if said man is really a female. It is obviously, among many shrinks, just as important to maintain compulsory heterosexuality as it is strict gender norms!

One of the worst cases I know of was a woman who stayed with her g/f after "T" and after the g/f had her breast mutilated from her and had her vagina sewn shut (can we say someone was daddy's little fuck toy?). After all was said and done, the woman found sex repulsive (naturally) with her man. She went to a therapist familiar with transition, and his advice to her was for her to "have sex with HIM whenever HE wants it"! The shrink said she will "learn to like it"! Needless to say, she didnt.

It is one sick fucking thing that these ignorant gender conforming therapists are transitioning young women and now even young girls, but it is getting much worse when these "gender specialists" are trying to convince lesbians that we in fact really DO want to be with a man!

Lesbians desire women, body and soul, period! Not men and certainly not other women who have drugged and hacked apart the beauty of the woman they could not see and respect.

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