Friday Open Day

In lieu of some new beginnings, today (and today) is open comments day...

Have a wonderful Friday (and Saturday)!

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Trans Trending-Who is Transitioning

They get younger and younger, female self hatred knows no age.

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Transman Charles Asher ripping off other Transmen???

A female transitioner, Charles Asher, was brought recently to my attention and because this blog has quite a few ftM readers I'm bring it to yours as a precautionary post. I only know what several ftM's are claiming against this ftM, so I do not claim to have any pure facts here. But based on the couple of video links I'm providing and some screen-caps of the comments, I suspect there is some truth to their claims. Seemingly this female transitioner (according to claims) has sold various ftM items to other ftM folks and did not send back the purchased items yet kept the money. So this is a warning to all female transitioners to take caution buying anything from Charles Asher.

See videos:

CALLING OUT CHARLES ASHER 

Charles Asher is a dick.

Some comments from the vids:

If anyone has more info of this possible rip off artist, let us know.

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Topics Tuesday-Lesbian Sex

There seems to be a bit of a separatist resurgence lately that is policing lesbian sex and using past sexual experiences as well as current sexual practices with lesbian partners as a measuring stick to determine who is a real lesbian. Due to some recent complaints about this from a few different places I wanted to bring the issue up here for a topic discussion.

Some possible questions:
1) If a female has had past sexual experiences with a male, but none after coming out, is she still a lesbian?
2) Are "gold star" lesbians the only true lesbians?
3) Can lesbian couples do anything in bed to revoke their lesbianism? (anything involving the couple only)
4) Is enjoying penetrative sex unlesbian?
5) Is strapping unlesbian?

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Progress toward a Butch Visibility

A piece I wrote, which began life here as a "post" regarding Butch childhood/life/troubles has been published in a mainstream literary mag. It is a small start to bringing Butch lesbians a tiny bit of the visibility we so need and for so long deserve. The Berlin Wall didn't come down all at once, it fell brick by brick, I've removed one brick from the wall of Butch Invisibility, a light can now be seen through the crack, before long the sun.

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A change of pace Sunday

What are some of the crushes you had growing up, whether cartoon characters, movie stars, singers, sitcom stars, who were they? Specify if it was an I-wanna-be-like-this-crush or a romantic crush. Feel free to tell us how you ID as well if you feel comfortable.

Open Comments if on topic

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