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Saturday, August 20, 2011

Trans Trending-Who is Transitioning





Nine more girls succumbing to the self hating trans trend, self hatred that doesnt end with cosmetic drugs and surgeries. Transition only furthers female self hatred, as far too many female transitioners exemplify with every single potentially cancerous "T" shot.

Transition doesnt "cure" female self hatred, anymore than it makes females men. Dont be fooled! Learning to love and express the unique female that you are is the only key to real happiness.

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  1. we know who you areAugust 20, 2011 at 1:33 PM

    LYNN MARIE BAKER!! You better stop all of this nonsense! And stop calling yourself "dirt". Sit up straight and be the gentlemen you look like

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  2. Feel free to make me coward.

    dirt

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  3. So sad that you have to sink so low to deny your own self hatred Lynn.

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  4. Projecting doesnt work here.

    dirt

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  5. Come on, let's cut her some slack.. she's too cowardly to transition yet too ugly to look like a woman. Must suck. No wonder she's so butthurt.

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  6. "Come on, let's cut her some slack.. she's too cowardly to transition yet too ugly to look like a woman. Must suck. No wonder she's so butthurt."

    Calm down now, getting personal won't help anyone.

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  7. Nine more kids that you and your brown nosing followers to humiliate, critique, and rip them apart. Wow, you must feel really good about yourself to sit and pick on kids. That's just the kind of woman you are. A coward!

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  8. Calm down? LOL - I'm so calm... I just think it's time she's called out for what she is, a bitter, unhappy and certifiably crazy woman.

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  9. No need to confuse me with your mom.

    dirt

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  10. "No need to confuse me with your mom."

    What, are you in the 1st grade?

    First it's picking on kids and the it comes up with a 1st grade comment. What is it gonna do next?

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  11. Clearly IP 99.60.42.38, you are obsessed. I suggest a nice therapist to help you through your unhealthy obsession with me.

    dirt

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  12. You are just a natural disaster! A train wreck!

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  13. Lynn, who are you talking to? What makes anyone who is calling you out as a hypocrite and hate monger a coward? I doubt anyone is obsessed with you Lynn Marie. To be honest with you Miss Baker, I cannot imagine why anyone would want to waste their time with you. I am simply here to remind you of the coward you are. The bully you are. We are not cowards Lynn. We are Anonymous, and since there is no such things as anonymity, we are just as brave as you are hiding behind your desk. Saying words I'm sure you'd never dare to say to ones face.

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  14. You and your comebacks are so immature. I don't see how anyone, male or female could be attracted to your personality. You personality Lynn Marie, is what gives us BUTCH Females a bad rap! BUTCH WOMEN DON'T HATE TRANSMEN. DONT LET THIS WEIRDO MAKE YOU THINK THAT WE DO! You are a bad apple Miss Lynn Marie. Not very lady like at all.

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  15. I asked my Femme girlfriend if she would ever be interested in an FtM and she said something interesting. First of all a loud "No!" She then said how Butches have a certain look in their eyes, which men never have. Not exactly a sadness, but a kind of a softness.

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  16. arealdirtywhiteboiAugust 20, 2011 at 3:09 PM

    we all know that it is you writing these comments that back you up. The only look IT has in ITS yes is sadness. LOOK AT IT!! this is why it refers to itself as, "dirt". The low of the low.

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  17. If anyone would like to meet and talk, let me know when and where.

    dirt

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  18. Nick, you are the one who said your mom was "crazy", do not get angry when its repeated. And Nick, this is a blog for females, not dudes. Try having a little respect.

    dirt

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  19. YES PLEASE!! Let us meet in Los Angeles, California, USA. September 17, 2011. Hollywood and Vine at 3pm. S/W Corner

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  20. Anon,

    Femmes love Butches for the softness within and without!

    dirt

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  21. "too ugly to look like a woman"

    Because being a woman equals being purdddddyyyy.
    God you FTMs really hate women.

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  22. I'm going to be in the LA area the beginning of Sept, feel free to email me if you truly wanna hang out.

    dirt

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  23. Are Anon really here?
    Didnt think you'd get involved in this.
    Im generally from 420 but used to frequent the asshole of the internet.
    Nice friendly place that.

    Its not exactly a fullscale attack though but Anon always get their information.

    Love you Guis. If you shut down this website. Ill dump my pron folder on The b. Or my Laugh you lose folder.

    This is going to be deleted but ill repost more times than she can delete. Till someone replies anyway.

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  24. we are all Anonymous. We are a legion. We do not forgive. We do not forget. Expect US.

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  25. You are NOT Anonymous. You are not legion. Just a lesion.

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  26. when DIRT'S pussy gets WET, it turns into MUD, and that is where all the WORMS go to die.

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  27. and you are NOT clever. Just a cunt.

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  28. Dirt, if you are not filled with self hatred why do you call yourself, a proud butch woman, "Dirt"? Does this offend any other dyke or just me? lulz

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  29. Native American Proverb:

    Man walk on Dirt. woman walk same dirt. Wind blow dirt, dirt hits dirt. The Earth is filled with dirt. Dirt is heavy. Man made of water. Life is water. dirt take away life. no life with dirt. This is why dirt be forty four and alone. dirt alone. without water. dry. drought. dirt.

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  30. I agree Dirt can be abrasive. But, if you are all FOR transition, why are you here? I think Dirt has great points. When I look at these pictures I feel sad. These are just kids. I cannot accept that transition from female to male is not about internalized misogyny in most cases.

    I spent many years wanting to transition, to fix this problem about not fitting into being what society tells everyone a woman can be. I spent years hating my body. Disassociating from my own body. I can easily come up with a trans narrative that would take me down the path to transition. Very easily.

    I just can't separate misogyny from the equation. And I cannot buy that ANYONE is born into the wrong body. We are born into the bodies that we are born into. It's our job to come to terms with the beautiful body we have. Believing you are born in the wrong body is kinda like a fairy tale.

    Why not let the folks who are interested in what Dirt is talking about have this as a resource? What's so threatening?

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  31. Good thing nothing is for sale. If its not for you its not for you.

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  32. Regardless of what I do to my body it will still be my own body. Very few people claim to be born in the wrong body.
    In my experience Ive only ever heard that said by people asking me if I was "born in the wrong body".

    Im here because as I explained her views fascinate me and I like a good argument.

    I dont feel that Me being Trans has anything to do with not fiting into the box of what a woman should be. Ive a much wider view of gender expression than I did when I tried to hide my feelings and be female. Ive always felt as though I was not female and I was something else. For a while I believed I wasnt male or female and that I was another gender. Mainly because I identified so strongly with men and didnt feel like a woman at all and because of my body I felt like I couldnt be either gender. This doesnt really answer anything you said but Ill get to it.

    I wrote a blog about mysogyny. Its an interesting topic for me because I didnt believe women could really be mysogynistic. I have no issue with women, I like women and I grew up in a very matriarcal and female dominated household. I judge men and women equally on personalities although this differs personally for me in terms of sexual relationships.

    That you didnt transition is testiment that you were not trans. That you knew you could easily get hormones and didnt do so and lived without them. If there were riots outside my door and a pharmacy was ransacked. Id go in and get T. Even if the place was on fire. Everyday I have to wait is hard because I feel like Im not moving forward in being who I feel I am.

    The people talking about forgiving and forgetting are a group of internet hackers who randomly attack people. They probably arnt doing it for any particular reason. Unless Dirt did something that specifically pissed them off. I doubt they're trans.

    Hope that answers most of what you said. You seemed to be looking for answers so I answered.

    Once again if this gets deleted and I get no reply this will be reposted.

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  33. In response to TheEtch:

    One thing struck me that you said: "Ive always felt as though I was not female and I was something else."

    But, the truth is, that you were female. (Dirt would argue that you still are female, not sure where I stand, or if I care that much in this distinction).

    It's not about you defecting to become male. It's not that I think trans folks are themselves mysonigistic. It's that, there was no way to see yourself as female and be proud and strong (or proud and sissy) or whatever kind person you wanted to be. How can that not be part of the dialogue? How can you dispute the crux of what Dirt is saying? How can anyone?

    Of course it feels better to be seen as male. My god. Our culture (not necc YOU) hates women, hates women's bodies and the smells etc, sexualizes women's bodies.... objectifies women's bodies... sells women's bodies.... it goes on and on.

    In fact, the real truth is: all women are born in the wrong body. Your statement of : "Ive always felt as though I was not female and I was something else." is a psycological problem. It's a social problem. It's a problem about gender. Changing your gender may solve that immediate problem for you because you feel better right now, or even your whole life. And maybe that solves it.

    I don't really need an answer... I'm shocked by all the stupidity that goes on here esp folks giving Dirt a hard time. Yes, I wish Dirt was a bit smoother sometimes in the ways she presented things. But, she is trying to get her message out, and she is fighting a strong current.

    I think there are a ton of young butches who are feeling pressure to transition. I know I certainly felt it. I see it all around me. I hope Dirt is a refuge for some folks who are questioning the trans trending.

    Like I have said b4: if you want to transition: go for it. You may have a great time. I think Dirt is just bringing up some really good points here and creating a space for a different view.

    Peace!

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  34. BTW: I do not know Dirt, have never spoken or corresponded with Dirt in any way, except to occasionally post on this blog.

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  35. Lol i swear this blog/commenters get more and more childish... any how, just to clear some things up, once an FtM or male identified female has begun medical transition example hormone replacement (which is given to ANY person with an androgen deficiency including women post hysterectomy) that person then becomes very much a bi gendered person and their gonads are no longer a working organ (in most cases, if they haven't been removed).... so in all honesty yes what alot of what you say is correct, BUT in saying that you do come from a biased place as do I, im not trying to change your mind as your not trying to change mine, so you can say all you like as nothing you say is actually factual to my personal life :D

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  36. Being transgender is not easier than being butch. Iv been crippled with depression because of feeling like my body was completely alien to me. I think Dirt wants us to "try harder" to be female but a lot of us have done that for years.
    Not saying that butches dont have it bad, Im sure Dirt occasionally gets abuse on the street about her gender presentation but I have a few friends who are butches and they have jobs and Ive never seen them get any abuse. But I have because I cross the line by wearing male clothes, having a male haircut and noone knowing what gender I am.
    When I was female presenting I got looked at and said stuff too but it never bothered me. Not bother me enough to make me want to be male to get out of it.

    Being female is about more than what gentitals and chromasones your born with.

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  37. "Clearly IP 99.60.42.38, you are obsessed. I suggest a nice therapist to help you through your unhealthy obsession with me."

    ...Says the person who spends a large proportion of her time writing a blog slagging off trans people

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  38. "Being female is about more than what gentitals and chromasones your born with.

    August 21, 2011 8:48 AM"

    In what way?
    In what way is female more than a biological reproductive category?
    What characteristics are female besides physical sex?

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  39. LOL dirt - "Clearly IP 99.60.42.38, you are obsessed. I suggest a nice therapist to help you through your unhealthy obsession with me."

    Oh wait - so you're NOT obsessed? Obsessed with digging up pictures of young people to gawk at and invite your readers to gawk at? Your "Butch" blog is at best, 20% about Butch issues and pride, and 80% about the trans community... stop projecting. You are most def. the one with the out of control obsession.

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  40. "Like I have said b4: if you want to transition: go for it. You may have a great time. I think Dirt is just bringing up some really good points here and creating a space for a different view."

    No, she's saying that all trans men are really self hating women who will always be miserable unless they stop trying to transition and live as women. There are some good points to be made about trans people thinking more about their reasons for transitioning and not thinking they automatically need surgery and the like, but what Dirt's saying is just sweeping ignorant bigotry.

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  41. "No, she's saying that all trans men are really self hating women who will always be miserable unless they stop trying to transition and live as women."

    What constitutes "living as a woman"?

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  42. Anon in August 22, 2011 6:21 PM

    I don't see any boys there, just girls who wanna be boys but they never will because they can't change their biology to produce spermatozoa and impregnate females or to look like a male who can't produce spermatozoa because of medical conditions.

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  43. [quote]In fact, the real truth is: all women are born in the wrong body. Your statement of : "Ive always felt as though I was not female and I was something else." is a psycological problem. It's a social problem. It's a problem about gender. Changing your gender may solve that immediate problem for you because you feel better right now, or even your whole life. And maybe that solves it. [/quote]

    Err and this stupid analysis leaves transwomen being who...? Guys who are to stupid to get it that they are already in the better social position. Please don't try to analyse something you obviously don't have any understanding about. And please please skip telling people what their problem is, that is so so patronizing!!!

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  44. Anon in August 22, 2011 8:09 PM

    Autogynephillia, mysoginy (Destroying women's image, women-only places, Lesbian sexuality), fetishism, or just thinking they're women because they're "failed men" that can't be the men patriarchy wants them to be.

    Please do think a bit about the many reasons that can happen.

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  45. I'm one of those pictures. At first I was ashamed that my image was being used on this blog, when I got told by a friend that it had been.

    Having read the comments I'm far far more ashamed of the people spewing bile at Dirt.

    I wish you all the best in helping people find happiness with their bodies, Dirt.

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  46. "Why not let the folks who are interested in what Dirt is talking about have this as a resource? What's so threatening?"

    Mostly it's the massive generalisations and misconceptions of trans men and their lives.

    I would also like to point out that Dirt makes out that they are being totally radical and saying what noone dare say in a world awash with trans folks, but I've had to deal with so many ignorant people bringing up exactly the same crap for most of my life.

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