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Saturday, May 21, 2011

The Trans Closet and the Trans Fetishizers who Wanna Keep them There

A few days ago I received an email from one of the many variations of  "aiden" (Aydian Dowling to be exact) who requested that I take down some references to her/her "fiance". Apparently her "fiance" freaked when she googled her own name (Jenilee A. Dowling) and her facebook account was linked to a comment someone left on one of my blog posts:
Anonymous said...
On TmatesFTM, you have also women who are "serial FTM daters" like Jenilee Anzalone (https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=65601358) who is now engaged to Aydian Dowling (one of the biggest Lynn fan: http://www.youtube.com/user/alionsfears).
Prior to be engaged to Aydian, Jenilee used to do date Aiden Daniel (note the similar first name) and used to share her experience/video on TMatesFTM about Aiden which was her BIG love at that time (AidenDanielLIVE: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AmNtui8QLc0).

Aydian, who made an angry video about me on youtube which was linked to several dozen trans sites and received thousands of hits and hate filled comments against me personally, said she would remove that video if I would comply with her wishes.  Seems now Aydian is more interested in pacifying her "fiance" who is intent on keeping her little trans fetish a BIG O secret, than fighting for what she believes in when she made the video. So much for "trans pride"!

I just viewed Miss trans fetishizer Jenilee A. Dowling's FB account and for someone dating a trans female, she doesn't list a single page or group having whatsoever to do with trans issues or trans support pages, as if she isn't even engaged to a trans female or doesn't have a past dating other trans females. Hmmmm.

As a lesbian, I have never been in the closet nor dated or would date a closet lesbian or any lesbian who wanted to remain in the closet, whether for professional reasons or familiar or both. One has to be highly suspect of anyone who claims to love you but doesnt want people or certain people knowing the you that you are or in Aydian's case the she she's playing at. That also goes for individuals having no personal integrity who are more interested in hiding/lying about who they are for the sake of personal comfort/gain.

Aydian, you may compromise yourself for personal comfort/gain or compromise yourself for another, but I've never been one to compromise and I most certainly will not start now. I realize you are quite young and based on your transition alone, cannot see that every move we make, every word we utter out loud can potentially have consequences, some of them grave. Only through maturity do we learn like chess players to anticipate some of the consequences of our actions, till then, you have no choice but to make peace with regret.

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  1. I think that's the same Aydian who thinks she's "stealth." She's pretty naive(as are many FtM's)not to realize everything you put out in the internet, especially under your real name, could be floating around out there the rest of your life. It does seem like Jenilee is embarrassed about having any trans connection.

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  2. how can this 'aydian' think she's stealth?
    her current video is all about raffling off a binder and a packer to raise money for her surgeries
    (pathetic)

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  3. Aydian might be very nervous because in her "Keeping up with Mr. Stealth" video she says Jenilee's family don't know Aydian is trans. So Jenilee is not much of a trans advocate if she's thinking of marrying someone she's so ashamed of.

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  4. i'm sure i'll be called 'pathetic' too (i'm the 12:07 poster) but i'd sure never ask for hand-outs to pay for my narcissistic pursuits, and while encouraging the same pursuits for others, mostly kids!

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  5. By the way, Jenilee Anzalone has also a Linked In profile here : http://www.linkedin.com/pub/jenilee-anzalone/1b/86a/466

    I have read it and I am just speechless: she is a women advocate. And she dates a trans...So tragic.

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  6. i'm gonna admit that i don't see how linking a facebook profile of someone who has supposedly dated transguys proves anyone's point - for a facebook profile is hardly a statement that anyone could argue on.

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  7. "Aydian, who made an angry video about me on youtube which was linked to several dozen trans sites and received thousands of hits and hate filled comments against me personally said she would remove that video if I would comply with her wishes."

    This transguy Aydian has no integrity.

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  8. Jenilee Anzalone is a trans chaser. She pushed Aydian to go for T and to transition. This is the truth.

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  9. I don't think she's obligated to plaster trans related stuff all over her facebook just because she's dating a trans person. I don't have rainbows and whatnot plastered all over my page - I don't see what the point would be. I mean, it's facebook.

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  10. On this video Jenilee was talking about her previous trans boyfriend (Aiden) with whom she was during 8 years old.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vMBFs15fWo4

    Her family and friends were aware he was trans so maybe this time with her new "fiancé" Aydian, she is afraid to appear as a trans chaser to the family?

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  11. For the record, Jenilee has chased Aydian, her new "bf", on YouTube....That is how they met. She is really a trans fetichist.

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  12. Jen sounds like "Chaz's" straight g/f, typical. I've seen this same scenario literally no less than a 100 times take place in the BF community in the last ten years alone.

    Straight female unhappy with males, decides to date females, straight female encourages any female shame issues lesbian may have, especially around her body, straight female suggests that maybe the shame issues are because the lesbians is "trans", lesbian transitions, transition only changes some aspects of the female body, straight girl likes males/male bodies and goes back to dating men, lesbian who transitions gets dumped and more often than not starts trying to date men.

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  13. This reads like a gossip column. Who gives a fuckin crap about some dumb transguy and his girlfriend? Oh! I know...a bunch of pathetic lesbians! Sad.

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  14. "This reads like a gossip column. Who gives a fuckin crap about some dumb transguy and his girlfriend? Oh! I know...a bunch of pathetic lesbians! Sad."

    I am not a lesbo and I will comment about what I find interesting in this article: Dirt shows how a woman influences her girlfriend(s) to go for hardcore body transformations called 'transition' and then how the same woman is not brave enough to take her part of responsibility in the social acceptance of the resulting freak she is engaged to. Dirt also shows this woman is apparently not at her first attempt of pushing a woman to masculinise her body and so Dirt introduces us to the concept of 'trans fetichizers'.

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  15. pathetic lesbian here
    (i wonder if ftm's are especially critical of lesbians for the reason that lesbians are traditionally the most looked-down upon group and that lowest group tends to see transmales stepping down even lower? while most other people look at is as an 'upgrade' if that makes sense)
    also i feel sad for kids like 'aydian' who start on testosterone which is the easiest part of transitioning, like magic! and then when they're left with the body hair and the adolescent-boy voice they're sort of forced into getting at least their breasts removed lest they be perceived as some type of bearded lady or something
    so it's sort of an easy fire to fuel, combined of course with the multitudes on the internet cheering them on

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  16. ...Who gives a fuckin crap about some dumb transguy and his girlfriend?...

    ummm people with too much time on their hands? One thing is for sure... You don't see people who attend places like Smith College stooping to this level.

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  17. @pathetic lesbian:

    I don't look down on lesbians in general, I look down on lesbians who post their prejudice here. Some women who post here are rad and have critical thoughts that span both sides of this debate, while others seem to be simply driving themselves insane by repeatedly claiming transpeople don't exist. Clearly we exist and have always existed. It's a more recent development that we have access to actual physical transition and it's freaking people the fuck out.

    I suppose you already know that much of the world believes lesbianism to be a false paradigm. They think sure, you have sex with other women but lasting relationships are not going to be truly satisfying. It's kinda cute for awhile, but it's not *real* and many women- who would otherwise be straight if they met the right man-are led into lesbianism by predators. We know this to be bullshit because we know that lesbian relationships can be passionate, loving, lasting partnerships. Lesbians KNOW that myths are perpetuated about their lives, but a few somehow lack the imagination to question whether that might be occurring to transpeople too. I don't look down on lesbians, I look down on lesbians who don't push themselves to think.

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  18. Is this really what radical feminism activism has become? Trash-magazine gossip about a couple and their online activities?
    Son, I am disappoint.

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  19. umm...your blog is a borderline hate blog. at very least, she clearly doesn't agree with the views you espouse...wanting to not have her name linked personally, professionally, and socially with a site like yours does not mean she is fetishizing trans people and wishing her partner to stay in the closet, it means she doesn't want her name tarnished by yours.

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  20. i don't think transpeople 'don't exist'- they make themselves exist
    i just believe that it's becoming an unnaturally huge subculture built all around narcissism, deception, and others' perception, an acceptance of gender roles rather than a rejection
    and it looks both foolish and tragic to me
    and i certainly 'think.'

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  21. Keep your eyes on your own dirty paper, dirt.
    You're a disgrace. Nothing you are doing has anything at all to do with feminism. The same goes for your little following/-ers. You are an abomination to the principle of feminism as a movement and its general appearance to others that don't understand it.

    It is women like you who have made 'feminism' an abrasive obscenity.

    Get a job, a life, and a wife while you're at it. Sheesh...do something productive to keep your little idle hands out of evil's playground.

    Live and let live. You've no other right in the world. Not a single one.

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  22. Anon@10:59,

    The only "disgrace" are those who stand idly by or worse enable females in their self hatred till they do anything medically possible to try and escape from themselves.

    And as long as women are hating themselves I will continue to dismantle systems that create/support their internalized misogyny.

    dirt

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  23. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Some other ignoramus sat in your same chair of mind frame many years ago and said the same things concerning lesbianism and homosexuality in general.

    You're just today's oppressor, that's all. Your ideology will be curb stomped just as all the other levels of oppression in this world were. Racism, homophobia, transphobia, all ignorance of the same breed of ugly and evil. You're a wolf in sheep's clothing. The rest of your flock will see that soon enough. There's nothing benevolent about you as long as you continue to think this way.

    All you are dismantling is my faith in humanity. You're efforts are misplaced. Place them at the individuals who create their own transsexuality, you may refer to these people as "trans trenders". I do not support that because THAT is a performance. It strikes me much like a minstrel show. Only these women put on the paint of "masculinity" to try and convince others that they are trans when it is not the case. They visit doctors that they know will give them testosterone just because the talk that bs "I played with boys toys as a child therefore I am man" nonsense. Do not attack (and lump into this mold) those who are, in fact, transgender.

    I can provide you a grand scale of examples of these types of women who put on this performance. As afore stated, they are easily detectable. Exert your efforts at THEM. They are the only one's guilty of the crimes you accuse. Not transsexual/transgender men who truly are who they are.

    Please see and understand. Achieve the knowledge of discernment.

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  24. And as long as women are hating themselves I will continue to dismantle systems that create/support their internalized misogyny.

    so what have you successfully dismantled so far? You have visions of grandeaur if you think you are powerful enough to change the lives of others. All you do is look hateful, spiteful, and childish in what you are doing.

    I agree with the poster who suggested you get a life, get a job, and a real time girlfriend.

    Build your own life.. Other peoples lives are theirs to build.

    This entry was no more than something the newspaper rags would sell. All you are doing is meddling in the lives of others and claiming to be an expert on a topic you know nothing about.

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  25. Even though her first trans bf came out to her as trans. I believe it was stated by her and her ex bf at first she was pretty upset about it. You guys are acting like she is saying " you know what? you seem transgender to me, so we should look into testosterone and top surgery for you". Highly doubtful.

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  26. Well as far as ftm's, not one of them I have met in real time has fit the profiling Dirt and her followers have attempted to make them out to be. Nobody is perfect regardless of who they are, but I have not experienced them to be any different than anyone else. The ones I know do not dwell on being ftm. They have hobbies, interests, and beliefs that are as varied as anyone else I know. There is certainly no cookie cutter version of who they are. From what I have seen on some of the posts throughout this blog if a person dares to say they do not see themselves as female they are condemned. For example there was more than one post regarding Smith's College which clearly stated if they did not *see* themselves as women they had abandoned womanhood and had should be forbidden to attend Smith College.

    I don't know the stories of those who condemn ftm's nor do I profess to know why they are so extreme in their endeavors.

    Nobody can change how another person thinks, but we sure can reconsider how we respond to dysfunctional people. Just to view this entry on this blog should certainly be a validator for the lack of maturity presented here by this blogger.

    You will never change her mind and she has the right to present in the way she chooses to. Not giving her an audience would be the most appropriate thing to do; An audience is what fuels her. When her audience drops she then goes after collabs to get them worked up and increase her comment numbers.

    The only way she will get taken down is if it is ever reavealed she is the reason someone commits suicide. I hope it never comes to that, but it is entirely possible.

    If we all stayed away, myself included, she will keep cranking it up until she trips herself up. It is the attention she is after. I honestly believe that.

    BTW Kuddo's to these kids that are no longer buying into the 9 weekly pics. You are a lot smarter than she has given you credit for. Keep up the good work!!

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  28. "I just viewed Miss trans fetishizer Jen's FB account and for someone dating a trans person, she doesn't list a single page or group having to do with trans issues or trans support pages, as if she isn't even engaged to a trans person or doesn't have a past dating other ftMs."

    Not only is this childish slander, this is completely absurd. Do you have your home plastered with rainbows, chicks kissing with hairy armpits, and a giant replica of a vagina over your bed frame??

    If not, according to your logic, you are clearly not "down" with the cause.

    This post is completely groundless and silly. As are all of your other posts. You should find a good tabloid to work for.

    I hear "Bubble Boy Goes to Space" is looking for a strong pseudo-feminist blogger who focuses on issues having absolutely nothing to do with her life.

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  30. And what on EARTH is the "Trans Closet"????

    This made up nonsense does not exist. Whether someone wants to disclose that information to others or not is completely their own personal business. Their assigned genitals are completely NOT the concern of the public. It would most likely please you to see a transsexual branded with a hot iron "FTM" on their foreheads.

    Another feminazi reference, folks. Jews had to wear stars stitched into their clothing just so their status as a "Jew" could be known so they could be openly discriminated against. Nonetheless, those of us with an OUNCE of humanity in our souls find the very IDEA of that completely disgusting.

    The same goes for your belief of this..."trans closet". It is the very same principle and you know it.

    Dirt, do you not see how evil this is? How can you be this way and sleep at night??

    That question is not rhetorical. I want an answer.

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  31. @ K.C

    If you have "freed" yourself, and admitted to having been "freed"...

    YOU WERE NEVER TRANS. EVER.

    Understand that. You were a "trans trender", the people that Dirt SHOULD be addressing in this blog.

    Understand that if you feel differently about yourself, and if you feel as though you ARE a WOMAN inside, then you were never ever trans. And therefore you know nothing of the experience of being trans.

    You can only slightly relate through your own IDEA of the experience.

    You were not "freed". You are now simply finished going through a phase.

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  32. K.C sounds exactly like a Lesbian minister at my church.

    It is perfectly clear that she is lesbian. But she preaches every sunday that she has been "freed" from the devilish "condition" of homosexuality.

    Sitting there listening to her is painful. Just as painful as reading your post.

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  33. Anon @5:25: " Their assigned genitals ....." BWAHahahahahahaa!
    Jesus I've heard peeps talk about assigned gender before but I have Never, Ever, Evahhhhh, heard someone with "assigned" genitals. Hahahahaha What are you on?

    Some sick-ass antisemetism you have going for yourself there too.

    Seek help. For real. You are ill. Skinhead.

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  34. @ anon 5:57

    ....what was at all anti-Semitic about that post?

    Someone's had a bit too much to drink. Please have the decency to be sober if you choose to comment on someone's blog.

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  35. Amazing what drama queens FtM's can be, comparing their plight to that of the millions exterminated in the Holocaust.
    I would say one part of "trans closet" is what Aydian is in, since Jenilee is too embarrassed to tell her family Aydian is not male. That's also why Aydian didn't like Chaz Bono's documentary showing those telling chest scares, because Jenilees's family may see her scars one day if she ever raises the money for surgery.

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  36. "Another feminazi reference, folks. Jews had to wear stars stitched into their clothing just so their status as a "Jew" could be known so they could be openly discriminated against. Nonetheless, those of us with an OUNCE of humanity in our souls find the very IDEA of that completely disgusting."

    @ Anon 6:10. Number one, these events preceded the Holocaust by many years... Number two, these events were used as a tactic of DISCRIMINATION. Much like your assertion that a trans person has to be forced by people like you to disclose information about themselves (that is COMPLETELY THEIR OWN BUSINESS) to the general public. Which will, in turn, ensure their victimization to discrimination (an example being your unnecessarily vicious comment).

    I hope that the pre school level at which I broke down this metaphor was simple enough for your simpleton mind.

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  37. " Number one, these events preceded the Holocaust by many years.."
    What events preceded the Holocaust by many years skinhead?
    The Holocaust started in 1939. What events before that are you referring to?

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  38. @ Anon 6:22

    To diffuse your idiocy once and for all... I am Jewish. And also a transsexual. Also, for your own benefit, I am a university graduate with a Ph.D in medicine and psychology.

    Your age, and IQ, is most likely less than my shoe size so I'll advise you now to stop your ignorance. No one is a skinhead here. Please re-read the above and answer your own questions.

    I would still like the proper assessment of the above comments to be addressed reasonably. That request is for Dirt.

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  39. History lesson from Anon at 6:10:
    hitler was appointed/elected on an antisemitic ticket in 1933. He openly blamed the Jews for Germany's problems. After elected, he didn't say "starting Monday we're going to start exterminating Jews" because the German people wouldn't have gone along with it. He started slowly restricting their rights, removing them from jobs and replacing them with nazis etc. which a few years later ended in the Holocaust. The Holocaust was an attempt to exterminate European Jews, and millions of others were also killed in it.
    No one can realistically draw any comparison between that a trans baker on Youtube who wants to marry Jenilee.

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  40. Anon@ 633-what are the events that preceded the Holocaust that you are referring to?

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  41. May 22, 2011 6:44 AM

    History lesson, wasnt just "jews" sweetheart, they are the ones have have been broadly publicised about

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  42. @6:55 - Read again, I said millions of others (including gays, handicapped, different political parties, etc.) But Jews were the highest number, at about 6 million + the only group hitler wanted to exterminate. About 500,000 Sinti+Roma were killed as well.

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  43. if KC had indeed started testosterone, she probably by now would be thinking that she did the RIGHT thing, like the rest of y'all- that's how testosterone works on the brain!
    who assigned you your genitals, i wonder?

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  44. i often wonder about jewish ftm's
    (i'm jewish myself)
    i mean i wasn't even allowed to pierce my ears as a child, how is this massive body/brain alteration accepted?

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  45. "like the rest of y'all"

    why not make your status as a cousin-marrying bigot moreso known to all? I don't think that's possible. Mind your own business and keep your opinions out of other peoples lives.

    Bunch of bigots.

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  46. I think it is HIGHLY disrespectful to insult KC because she dealt with her GID differently from some of you transguys! What the fuck? You guys are contradicting yourself. Doing the same mess you accuse Dirt of doing! Uncool!


    " For example there was more than one post regarding Smith's College which clearly stated if they did not *see* themselves as women they had abandoned womanhood and had should be forbidden to attend Smith College."

    You had me with you until this remark here. It's a woman's college. Women go there. Not hard to comprehend. If you are a guy, Smith sounds like a poor choice for you. Guys go through manhood not womanhood!


    And let's all drop the feminazi, nazi, jews, holocaust, hilter talk. I mean really.....As much as I disagree with posting somebody's business like this. You guys need to cool it!

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  47. Saying "y'all" indicates that someone is a "cousin-marrying bigot"? Oh, sweet irony...

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  48. i said 'like the rest of y'all' as a joke
    i was born in brooklyn to intellectual jewish artists.

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  49. It wasn't so much the word "y'all" as the implication that that person was verbally lumping human beings into a group like cattle.

    In that case, it was a bigoted statement. Don't try to escape it. If someone said that to you concerning a character trait of yours you'd hit the roof. Show some empathy, integrity, and humility if your upbringing was so reputable.
    (Changing the subject won't help your case.)

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  50. I said:
    if KC had indeed started testosterone, she probably by now would be thinking that she did the RIGHT thing, like the rest of y'all- that's how testosterone works on the brain!

    & I stand by it, I'm afraid!

    I've seen testosterone convince female brains that they need testosterone...

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  51. (and then they generally MUST do more transitioning, all under control of the hormone, all to try and match its effects)

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  52. I don't care what you've seen. Nothing could be more irrelevant. Small minded people need to get hip to the fact that their little viewpoints are no more than little viewpoints.

    Leave people alone. That's it. It's a simple task. Live your own life, and in order to do that you have to get one first.

    I'm done with this bull. You people are hopeless.

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  53. Not everyone is a bystander Anon, thank fucking god!

    dirt

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  54. to anonymous 9:42 from the poster of the 2 prior,
    I was being asked to defend my statement re: testosterone usage creating its own continued requirement, and when I did (without changing the subject) I was told that my 'little' viewpoints don't matter anyway... Oh well, your little viewpoints are only little viewpoints too I guess!

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  55. @Anon 5:30 am
    You have absolutly no idea what I have gone through! The extreme body dysphoria, how I wondered every night if I was gonna live to the morning or if I was gonna kill myself before the night ended, how it felt like I was dying inside everytime someone called me by female pronouns, how i hide away every mirror in my apartment because I could'nt stand to see the person looking back at me, how I had to shower in the dark because I couldn't stand the very sight of my own body. You have absolutly no idea what I went through, or maybe you do, because my story is similar to all the FTMs out there. The difference between me and them? I never started to change my body with surgery and hormones. But I wanted to SO BAD, I was constantly certain I was going to kill myself within the few weeks if i couldn't. Who knows what person I would have been if I had started T, like I was dying to do? That's the question. I wouldn't be the person I am today, that's for sure. Don't say I was never trans just because you don't want to believe that it's possible to accept yourself as the sex you were born as rather than to go for transition. It's possible and I'm certainly not the only living proof of this.
    Just realized that I posted the same comment twice. Thought it didn't work the first time, so I wrote it again -.-' When you see that i deleted a comment, it's not because i regretted writing it, it's because I accidentally wrote it twice -.-'

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  56. KC,

    You dont have to justify yourself, and you're experiences and any less valid or painful because you didnt transition!

    dirt

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  57. Yes. Your story is similar.

    But it is in no way the same.

    The "nobody knows the trouble I've seen" pitch doesn't help your case either.

    Please. Tell someone who cares aka dirt.

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  58. Being trans has nothing to do with hating your body. That's the bs that dirt will feed you or that you will hear from an FTM "trender"'.

    I'm not going to explain, none of you are worth it. Especially you K.C. The fact that you used the word "condition" to describe YOUR situation, is actually accurate. Because for people like you, and the rest of the trenders who believed oh so hard that they were trans at some point in their life and have "heroically escaped it", it is a "condition." But for the rest of us, its apart of our make-up. Swallow that fact and live and let live.

    K.C. stop pitching your sob story as if you speak on behalf of transsexuals in any way. Because, as you've said, you aren't one in any way.

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  59. what bigots really!

    as if being born to intellectuals in brooklyn makes you better than someone born to poor white trash in the south!?

    i see how you do clearly so desire to be the MAN. a privledged man none the less telling all us silly stupid women below you how superior you are!

    its all so funny really.

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  60. and leave k.c. alone. many of us here share her story, or one very similar. go elsewhere (the trans sites where only one view is heard, & encouraged and there is no such thing as trans regret)....

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  61. @anon 3:20
    It's cool really. Two years ago I would have reacted the same way if someone woud have told me what i posted in previous comments. But honestly, i don't care. If what I say can make one single female who is considering transition to think twice, i'm happy.
    @anon 3.01
    I'm not "pitching a sob story" and i'm not looking for sympaty, I'm just telling you the truth. My point is not that you should be sorry for me, it's that i really know what gender dysphoria is like. Yes, hating your body is not the same thing as being trans. What i've experienced is pretty much a textbook case of gender dysphoria, things like feeling like your breast are not really a part of your body, feeling like you have a penis (a phenomenon known as phantom genitalia) etc. So i'm perfectly aware of the difference.
    When you say that being trans is part of your make-up, how do you mean? How does your biology differ from a regular non-traditionally feminine woman? A lot of women have "masculine" brains, but it doesn't make them male. And it has not yet been proven that gender identity is something you're born with, there are theories about were it comes from, but yet no proof.
    There is one thing I agree with that is often said in trans/queer circles: identity is fluid. People create their identities based on who they identify with. It's not something set in stone.

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  62. "as if being born to intellectuals in brooklyn makes you better than someone born to poor white trash in the south!?"

    I only mentioned my birthplace because I was insulted as a backwards hick for using the word 'y'all'

    i see how you do clearly so desire to be the MAN. a privledged man none the less telling all us silly stupid women below you how superior you are!

    Is that also directed to me? Strange idea, that one.
    Clearly the ones who desire to be the MAN try to become the MAN (unsuccessfully and foolishly to be sure)

    I was just on the train with an obvious middle-aged ftm, bald and somewhat midgety

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  63. "It wasn't so much the word "y'all" as the implication that that person was verbally lumping human beings into a group like cattle."

    Then why did you add "cousin-marrying" to it?

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  64. Jenilee Anzalone is a trans chaser. She pushed Aydian to go for T and to transition. This is the truth.- uhh no its not. Aydian was starting to beofre he hooked up with her. duh.

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  65. Jenilee Anzalone is a trans chaser. She pushed Aydian to go for T and to transition. This is the truth.- uhh no its not. Aydian was starting to beofre he hooked up with her. duh.

    ^Aydian was on T before he hooked up w/ her but they were having an "online romance" before he started T. I knew the infamous Jen a long time ago. She IS a Trans Chaser. When she was dating Aiden for those "8 years" (which by the way were full of him cheating on her and her sleeping w/ 2 bio males and multiple "trans" people) Her family knew her ex aiden was a female who was transitioning to male and they all never got along. Jen's family doesnt know that Aydian is Trans probably because she only sometimes speaks to her mother. Her and her sister and her step sister have no relationship. Her father passed on. & Aydian doesnt pass well at all. Jen had even asked my partner at the time to "teach Aiden how to be more masculine." (my ex is FTM) She persued my ex partner and ultimately they ended up having a fling. She then proceeded to call my ex and Aiden (whom she broke up w/ after we found out about her fling and moved to florida) "little girls who want to be boys." She then dated a bio male in florida and was all "in love w/ him" after a whole month and about 6 months later lied to him and broke up w/ him bc Aiden wanted to be w/ her again. She told her bio male bf that she just needed time. & he tried to kill himself. All of a sudden her and Aiden are the "perfect couple" on Tmates. She's the "perfect" girlfriend but what isnt said is that she cheated on Aiden w/ Aydian. She did push Aydian to go on T. Aydian also cheated on his ex gf w/ Jenilee. Jenilee is a very funny girl. Most lesbians or gays dont pait their rooms in rainbow but they do have some kind of connection to the LGBT community. Most transgender people and their partners are very involved in the trans community & do have some links to them.

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  66. She's mentally ill AND working as a "counselor". She and Aydian only " came out" to the world on their MTV special to promote their wedding and relationship. Most of her family and friends knew something was awry with Aydian, but it wasn't confirmed until MTV. Their still basking in their 15 minutes of fame with Aydian now trying to get on the cover of Men's Health. It really makes me sick how narcissistic and fucked up they both are. It's pathetic. They both say theyre representative of the community, but they are only supportong their own scewed agendas like their tranny clothing line. They've burned so many people along the way. They both use people to get what they want. Karma is a real bitch and I'm sure Jen and her wife Amy will get what's coming to them.

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