I apologize to anyone who has left a comment and I have been remiss in responding back, am up to the top of my head in first class Femme...lol Promise to respond ASAP.
I did however want to highlight a few comments:
First, I'm glad you found yourself mirrored in my post, Miss Femme. Second, while you might not currently see yourself in the sea of those calling themselves "femme", the answer isn't for you to give up on Femme, that's just what queerist want. You need to hold on to Femme for dear life, live Femme, breath Femme, empower Femme and above all NEVER give up Femme! Hiding yourself as a Femme only makes queerist shout "femme" louder. This is why there is SO much misinformation about who real Femmes are is floating about everywhere. Misinformation that leads men into thinking they can access/date "femmes", trans(men) thinking they can access/date "femmes" and "femmes" thinking because they employ patriarchy's masturbatory hyper femininity while occupying LFB (Lesbian/Femme/Butch) spaces that they're "femme". We have to wrestle Femme back from the shellacked nails of queerist and the only way to do this is for Femmes to stand firm on not only who they are but be vocal about exactly who they arent thus eliminating queerists from our spaces/identities.
Anon, as soon as time permits I will devote a post just to this issue. There is a definite progression that starts with cross dressing (combined with chest binding, packing) it seems that with each stage of trans progression rather than body dysphoria disappearing, it is increasing instead. And with each stage that dysphoria increases, comes a greater pathological desire for more and more harmful means of destroying the female body. Transition after all is a form of murder/suicide.
I will also work on a post revolving solely around this bullshit! I did view the video link, how nice that this "man" seemed to have no issue at all when "he" mentioned "his" part in the "women's studies" dept of "his" job. As an aside it would do the trans detractors and women thinking about transition listening to the trans detractors trans lies, with regards to my posts about the Truth about Testosterone on the female body, to have a look see of this video and note the (midget) voice and clear signs of male pattern baldness already emerging. As I only have this commentator's word, any info regarding the previous woman at this job position would be useful.