Being a reasonably smart fucking Butch and a good lezbo I am well versed in my early lezbo feminist herstory. And being well versed in such matters, I am also very well aware that there was a HUGE (practically the size of my cock huge!) rejection of Butch women and Butch cock no matter who was sporting it since both were considered tools of the patriarchy. If something was deemed male or male like the radical lezbo feminists of the past rejected it out right and rad. lezbos of the past clearly saw Butch women as male and labeled penetrative sex objects male like. Even if such penetrative sex objects weren't strapped to a Butch women and were merely being used to pleasure ones vag, the vag and the woman attached to the vag was considered not a true rad lezbo feminist and would be suspected of being hetero to boot or as the case was then, to combat boot! It didn't much matter that lezbos everywhere were fucking themselves silly or getting fucked or fucking the hell out of each other, if the word got out penetrative sex was happening, you were banished from which ever radical lezbo feminist group you were with.
Most of my blog readers consider me to be a pretty radical lesbian feminist and I consider myself a rad lezbo feminist as well, cuz I am. I mean whats more radical that a Butch woman under patriarchy who loves herself because she is a woman, not because she isn't a man? Pretty fucking rad doncha think! I am also considered radical for the politics I practice, for the ugly truths I expose, for truly loving women in a woman hating world and for calling patriarchy and those that support it on their shit every chance I get. But being the DIRTYwhiteboi that I am, I'm wondering these days where do things like dirty talk in bed and butch cock fit in with today's rad lezbo feminism? Would post rad lezbo feminist consider my Femme partner and myself comrades in rad lezbo feminism for enjoying some fun healthy dirty talk and butch cock play while in the sack?
I realize the idea of Femme/Butch relationships aren't as preposterous to the larger lesbian community as they once were, but I still think they are very much considered some form of hetero mimicry by most lesbians. Radical lez feminism aside, I think its partly the notion that because our relationships are believed to be heterto apery Femmes and Butches keep what we do in bed quiet. There is a certain shame attached to our sex lives even though many other lesbians are doing some of the very same things in bed. Loads of lesbians strap and fuck their g/f's, but for some strange reason when one of those girls is a Butch lez and her partner a Femme lez , its hetero imitation! Two women fucking each other in whatever way they choose, isn't hetero, its as lesbian as lesbian can be!
Me as a Butch woman whispering to my g/f that I want to shove my butch cock into her wet pussy IS lesbian. My partner asking me if I want my Butch cock sucked IS lesbian. My clit getting engorged with blood while staring at my g/f's tits IS lesbian, my g/f nearly coming herself from sucking my engorged clit IS lesbian, me strapped fucking my g/f hard doggie IS lesbian, my g/f telling me to come in her pussy while I'm doing her IS lesbian, me coming with my cock inside my g/f IS lesbian, my g/f coming hard with my fingers deep inside her pussy while I suck her nipples IS lesbian and on and on and together everything we do in bed is radical lesbian feminism in action, perhaps more radical than anything we can do.
If you haven't gathered by now I don't exactly subscribe to the whole retarded PC movement which I think far too many women do, especially past and current rad lez feminist. I've never been much for rules of any sort, there is no freedom where there are rules and I cant see living without freedom. Unlike most, freedom doesn't frighten me, unlike most I seek freedom rather than seek to (to use Fromm's phrase) "escape from freedom". So while I fervently believe in fighting the good fight for women and women's causes I don't allow the rules that surround that fight to interfere with mine and my partners passions for each other. I have a relationship and commitment to radical lesbian feminism, I also have a relationship and commitment to my partner that being the righteous partner that I am, I will never let anything supersede. Not that I feel I have to choose between rad lez feminism and how my partner and I enjoy sex, I dont feel that. But I suspect there are still many a rad lez feminist out there who do believe I should.