Saturday, May 2, 2009
Here's what we have in a nutshell or more to the woman in questions disordered wet dreams, a nutsack, either way what it TRANSlate to is this: the TG community's creation of the most versatile term (transphobia) which can be used to paint an ugliness with one broad stroke upon its victims or used to silence any sane argument presented, or used to create a false sense of sympathy for any number of reasons or used as a threat in order to achieve what the user desires or believes their entitled, as is the case here.
The use of the transphobia term itself is a cog in the TG disorder wheel. It is a gun held to the head of any rational person or argument that differs from the TGs idea of how they see themselves. It is not enough for TG persons to merely "change sex" and be "cured"(which is where the medical establishment fails in treating this disorder-physical rather than mental). This disorder requires others to buy into its "sex change" lies in order to reinforce the false identity the TG person has created. TGism is a recreation of the original reflection the disordered experienced as an infant/child, only a eonian recreation.
Meaning when the girl baby (I'll use girl since I'm posting about an Ftm woman) looked up and out and into the eyes that reflected her back to herself as a baby and later as a female child creating her female identity, when she chose to alter that identity as all TGs do, the only road map available is the original path to identity. Therefore TGs rewalk this path again and again and again with each person they know or meet recreating the reflection of this new identity hoping and praying each time this chosen identity will take. But because identity is hardwired in each of us at such an early age, no amount of brick and stone can ever completely wall off the core identity.
So that when the TG identity is confronted with a non believer (someone that does not assist in the identity recreation/reinforcement) they're branded with the "transphobia/transphobic" term, just like the ftM woman here. First she needed her newly created identity reflected back to her by others reinforcing it to herself, so that she can believe she is what she says she is. That is why she put her "trans" status in the syllabi, because she was trying solidify her new identity by having others share in it with her. The TG identity cannot exist on its own because it is an artificial identity, an identity demanding props and an audience.
Butch women get mistaken for males all the time, this doesnt throw their identity into question, they merely correct the mistake and move on. The same thing happens to some young gay males being mistaken for teenage girls, or light skinned POCs being mistaken for whites. It can be annoying, but its nothing to lose sleep over, because none of these people require others for their existence. They are Butch women or gay youths or POC when they're alone or publically invisible.
The TG identity however must not only have an audience but a willing audience! If not it falls back on its "transphobic" defense for what it thinks is self preservation. Only the thing being preserved is a false sense of self. The ftM woman here rather than be accountable for her failings, readily uses the "transphobia" label in hopes of getting her job back. Thats the narcissism of this disorder at work. How dare other women who work right up until they deliver their baby be able to skate for 3 months, and SHE an ftM woman not get what she believes is her due of 3 YEARS skating??!!! While her being let go seems more to have to do with completely changing her class course direction for which she was hired, given her horrific displays of misogyny it is clear she has no business teaching WOMENS studies!
Friday, May 1, 2009
Imagine my surprise (damn now I have holly near stuck in my head) when I received this in my LJ inbox a few days ago. A friends request to my LJ by a long time BF.com member/supporter.
My first thought was "WITF"? My second "why on earth would someone from a male-centric, misogynistic, sexist site from which I have been banned, choose to friend me"? The shortest distance between two points being (see I did pay attention in math that day!) a straight line, I asked. And as you can see from the cap, she politely answered. She claims to agree with some of what I write regarding Butch women being women. I know big leap right?!? Women actually BEING women, its like a whole new fucking concept! Who knows what could happen if that horse escaped from the fucking barn! Crazy shit like, feminism's return, women learning to love themselves, women loving women, women taking pride in being women, death to queer theory and the feminism of choice! Yanno, nutty shit like that!
But digress, perhaps I'm being too hard on this woman who I really dont even know. Perhaps she's no longer a BF.com member I think. Perhaps I should check her out a bit before thinking anything else. I check her LJ profile out first, to see whose on her Flist. Hmmm BF.com members ranging from ftM women and the women who date them, several male-centric self hating "butches" and I use that term loosely, a few self described "femmes" who perpetuate Butch equals male peppered with a heavy dose of misogyny, at least one "stonefemme" which translates to fucked up straight woman who uses her straight privilege to occupy lesbian space and fuck up Butch women, and last but certainly not least, the site owner whose dollar signed eyes has seen in her what-should-I-buy-now-wisdom to letting heterosexual men on her boards providing they pay the steep membership fees. Okay, I admit, not a good sign, so far.
But just to further give the benefit of the walloping doubt I'm having, I go a step further and check out some of her last comments at BF.com as well and to see if she is a paid member. I find this:
She is paying $100 bucks a year to support web space that clearly is hell bent on nothing less than the genocide of Butch women! She is supporting web space that illustrates the only way to treat a Femme is through sexist, misogynist means, she is supporting web space that encourages the drugging and mutilation of healthy bodied women, she is support web space that has taken efforts to systematically virilize every nook and cranny of Butch, she is supporting web space that will allow for a price any person of any sex of any sexual orientation in!
But none the less, I believe her when she says she believes in Butch as woman, I believe she addresses and loves her partner as a Butch woman. I also believe her Butch woman beliefs and practices are conditional and to a degree. Because I believe it is IMPOSSIBLE to be a member of the KKK on one hand while having a WOC partner on the other. Needless to say, I will not be mutually friending her. She may however keep me on her side the flist and follow my posts, thats up to her.
As for the Butch woman, well she is all or she is nothing!
Wednesday, April 29, 2009
Seems a BF.com misogynist linked the dirtster's blog to a BF post and oh gosh we cant have femmes and butches reading dirt, they may get "ideas"! Here's the link that was deleted.
I'll say straight away, NO there is NO room for misogyny. If you were born female and pathologically hate yourself as a female to the point of no longer address yourself or have others address you as the woman you are, YOU MY DEAR ARE A FUCKING MISOGYNIST!
And I'm fucking crying over here right now, where did I put my tiny violin, because it is such a "struggle" to be an ftM woman or a "male ID'd" woman. Choosing to abandon womanship is a choice those women make. It is a clear identification with their victimizers. As long as patriarchal regimes continue to flourish and reign supreme it is a struggle for EVERY woman, no matter the race, creed, class or sexuality. Choosing to sail amid torrents of rough waters is the real fucking struggle!
I'll feel sorry for these women when they buck the fuck up and begin acting like the women they were born rather than they crybabies they've clearly become!
Monday, April 27, 2009
Fair use capped.
These posts pretty much speak for themselves. All too sadly they're speaking behind closed doors where no one can hear. Only doctors who are more concerned with the all mighty dolla than actually treating these women with their various mental illnesses.
These arent posts that are out of the ordinary by any means, in fact ftM communities are over flowing with such posts. Overflowing with young women who cannot and do not want to exist as women in a sex obsessed, sexist, female objectified society!
A society that drifts further and further adrift away from a feminism that fought for equality for women, a feminism that fought to instill pride in women, a feminism that fought to inspire a love of women and our woman bodies, a feminism that fought to end the endless free labor women provide daily to men, a feminism hell bent on holding men accountable for countless rapes and violences it commits on women every minute of everyday!
Instead that feminism has been traded for the feminism of "choice"! Which means you're a good feminist if you support your sisters getting their brains beat in because its their "choice" to stay with their husband, you're a good feminist if you support women selling their asses on the street because they "choose" to do so, you're a good feminist if you support you sisters humiliating and denigrating themselves in pornography because its their "choice" in how they choose to earn a living, you're a good feminist if you support women who reject feminism because its their "choice", you're a good feminist if you support women starving or mutilating their bodies however they see fit because they "choose" to, you're a good feminist if you support female youths who look and dress like they just stepped out of a glam mag for boy attention cuz they "choose" to, you're a good feminist for supporting drunk college girls who choose to pole dance in male sororities, you're a good feminist for supporting a drunk college girls "choice" not to report a rape because "really it was no big deal"!
Feminism of Choice is women choosing to support and actively participate in misogyny, thereby CHOOSING to take part in the destruction of ALL women, EVERYWHERE! How fucking feminist!