Friday, February 6, 2009

Trans aka LYING is the best Policy

Fair use capped from a typically disturbed ftM woman.

Stealth ("for transpeople") is just one of the many terms Tgs have co-copted as the poster indicates and refashioned in order to mask Tg lies within their minds as excusable lying to others.


Stealth is defined here as:








And interestingly check out the only synonym Wordweb lists when stealth is searched:


Pathological lying or mythomania (a foundation disorder for developing BDD/GID) is inextricably linked to both histrionic personality disorder and narcissistic personality disorder.


This is an area that the medical establishment completely ignores with the current "treatment" for Tgism. How healthy can it possibly be to live your adult life LYING to other people, and not just any people but people one is forming friendships/relationships with. Its one thing to lie to yourself, but lying to everyone around you??? Mythomania does not a healthy mind (or body) make!!!!!

Healthy intimate relationships can only be forged and maintained through truth, love and transparency!

One also must take into account the potential for physical harm that can and is experienced by Tg mythomaniacs. Again something completely ignored by the medical establishment! The primary targets for violence usually are homosexual Tg men who lie to hetero male dates/partners about their being men as well. Often times the Tg males are "pre-op" to boot, meaning they still have a standard looking penis/testes rather than a refashioned cosmetic penis/testes.


The heteropatriarchal ME does nothing to warn/counsel Tg males in a greater awareness and understanding of how their male privilege can cause them harm when coupled with mythomania and Tgism in a misogynistic heteropatriarchal society. In all likelihood the patriarchal ME isnt aware of its own male privilege. Therefore they cannot possibly help other men they claim to be "helping" become aware of theirs, let alone decipher the intricacies of misogyny which ultimately is the backdrop for not only the violence that can be unleashed on Tg males BUT on the creation of Tgism itself!


Male privilege is the blanket ALL males remain swaddled in from birth to death regardless of any/all possible external differentials, even cosmetically appearing as male contrived "women".

Women are not born steeped in any such privilege, instead women are born completely submerged in male violence. Whether that is direct male violence immersing the "family" or the patriarchal systems we're all subjected to which continue to pummel womankind/womenkind relatedness violently into silence and oblivion!


Because males are unaware of the violence (misogyny) women experience from birth to death coupled with their male privilege (a false sense of invincibility) homosexual Tg males feel safe lying about their being males to hetero men. Ultimately the violence Tg males experience is a result of misogyny. Thats not to say their mythomania doesnt play a major role here (it does).


But if being a women wasnt an abomination under patriarchy, homophobia would be eradicated along with violence against Tg mythomaniacs. Because their only true crime would be lying, of which most of us do to some extent without fear or repercussions of losing our lives over it.


Getting back to the cap, ftM women have less to worry about with lying to straight women over their being females. Its highly unlikely the straight female is going to beat the ftM female to death. While a woman my FEEL violent, under the current patriarchal systems it is not socially acceptable for women to exhibit that violence. So this ftM woman is free and clear to lie her head off without any major repercussions except rejection!

I do agree with her on the one hand, Tgists should NOT be "linked" to gays and lesbians, on the other hand nor should they be "linked" to the intersexed as she proposes. The intersexed are BORN intersexed, they werent shot up with faux hormones during thier mother's pregnancy or genitally mutilated during pregnancy! Intersexism is a physiological issue, NOT a MENTAL issue such Tgism. Nor are there a multitude of other disorders attached to the intersexed condition which helped develop their intersexism as there are with Tgists.


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Thursday, February 5, 2009

Consider If This Is a Person

http://hgs.oxfordjournals.org/cgi/content/full/22/2/266

A better translation of the Levi poem discussed:

Shema

You who live secure
In your warm houses
Who return at evening to find
Hot food and friendly faces:

Consider whether this is a man,
Who labours in the mud
Who knows no peace
Who fights for a crust of bread
Who dies at a yes or a no.
Consider whether this is a woman,
Without hair or name
With no more strength to remember
Eyes empty and womb cold
As a frog in winter.

Consider that this has been:
I commend these words to you.
Engrave them on your hearts
When you are in your house, when you walk on your way,
When you go to bed, when you rise.
Repeat them to your children.
Or may your house crumble,
Disease render you powerless,
Your offspring avert their faces from you.


I would also like to add Nelly Sach's Chorus of the Rescued as the answer to the questions raised in this essay.

We, the rescued,
From whose hollow bones death had begun to whittle his flutes,
And on whose sinews he had already stroked his bow—
Our bodies continue to lament
With their mutilated music.
“We, the rescued,
The nooses wound for our necks still dangle
Before us I the blue air—
Hourglasses still fill with out dripping blood.
We, the rescued,
The worms of fear still feed on us.
Our constellation is buried in dust.
We, the rescued,
Beg you:
Show us your sun, but gradually.
Lead us from star to star, step by step.
Be gentle when you teach us to live again.
Lest the song of a bird,
Or a pail being filled at the well,
Let our badly sealed pain burst forth again
And carry us away—
We beg you:
Do not show us any angry dog, not yet—
It could be, it could be
That we will dissolve into dust—
Dissolve into dust before your eyes.
For what binds our fabric together?
We whose breath vacated us,
Whose soul fled to Him out of that midnight?
Long before our bodies were rescued
Into the arc of the moment.
We, the rescued,
We press your hand
We look into your eye—but all that binds us together now is leave-taking.
The leave-taking in the dust
Binds us together with you.

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Tuesday, February 3, 2009

More reason to rid the Femme/Butch community of straight women!!!!

Fair use capped from a site that claimed to be "All about Femme". Obviously that claim is false from this post alone!






















This is a clear picture of what has been going on in the Femme/Butch community for the last 10+ years.

Straight women who for a multitude of reasons have left heteroville for dykesville, only they're still playing it STRAIGHT!

Given the issues Butches develop (insecuries about their bodies/femaleness/butchness etc) due to their continued invisibility within and under patriarchy, and the blatant reluctance of the damaged straight women occuping the Femme/Butch community to view/treat Butches as anything other than MALE (you can take the straight girl out of hetville, BUT...) is it at all surprising AFTER dating one of these damaged straight women that some Butches trannify?

I firmly now believe Butch trannification has more to do with the hetero invasion of Femme/Butch spaces than with invisibility. Butches have been dealing with invisibility since the dawn of the very first dawn, without opting for trannification. Even in times before the heteropatriarchal medical establishment began drugging and mutilating folks into heteroism, Butches were not "IDing" as "male". Butches were living as women, being women because they are women!

Granted due to Butch invisibility, growing comfortable into their womanness took a certain amount of maturity on the Butches part, love, guidance and assurance from Femme friends/partners as well as positive Butch role models within each established Femme/Butch community far and wide.

Then along comes queer theory, a reinforcement of hetero gender norms and the hetero woman invasion! Next thing we know, men are women, women are men, men are diapered babies, women are anime figures and damaged straight women are coupling with Butches and treating Butch butchness as male masculinity, further confusing/harming Butches!

But these damaged straight women are MORE concerned with maintaining THEIR heteroness amid a lesbian relationship than giving a fuck if some lezbo hacks her tits off and begins taking a drug that will foster the surface obliteration of herself as well as a drug that has yet to have any long term studies done!

Along with the "trans" i.e. male invasion of lesbian spaces, the hetero female invasion is also on the list of issues the New Radical Lesbian Feminist Front is fighting to change.

It may not happen over night radical dykes, but it WILL happen!

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