Friday, January 30, 2009

Well speaking of butchfemmedance.com


I loled!

Also compare the name of the site to the site's descriptions and site's keywords. Yeah, I can see how that makes sense! But considering the site owner is STRAIGHT I'm not surprised.








Oh and a pic from a popular Femme/Butch site. THIS is what is "passing" for Femme these days!


























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NRLFF

Thursday, January 29, 2009

butchfemmedance.com's disordered members

Fair use capped from another woman hating Femme/Butch site. (butchfemmedancedotcom)


Seems this purported (ftm) woman is a tad upset because the dirtster discussed her Femme ignorance and various mental issues.

http://dirtywhiteboi67.blogspot.com/2008/12/more-ftm-transignorance-on-femmes.html

Interestingly (but not surprisingly) she labels me a "tg butch lesbian"). I say interestingly because it is interesting to see from the disordered themselves just how the "trans" disorder shades their perception of reality.

We often hear from the "trans" disordered about just how different and unique (can we say special snowflake syndrome) they are because they're "fighting the binary" by way of their disorder. I'm obviously still out to lunch on how exactly one can fight the binary while doing everything medically possible to subscribe to it.

It is through the strict adherence to the binary (masculine equals male/feminine equals female) that the "trans" base their entire disordered reality, hence the reason in the case above, our poster can only see me (a masculine woman-non binary) in terms OF the binary (TG).

In regards to her whine regarding my "claims" as to what Femmes desire, they arent "my claims" anymore than it would be my claim that an orange is orange. In reality words have decisive meanings (kinda simplifies communication) sadly though in "queer reality" which is a by-product of post modernism's queer theoried distortions, words are given whatever meaning the user can dream up.

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Monday, January 26, 2009

Can someone please tell me why...

Can someone please tell me why America has a poet laureate?

http://blogs.tnr.com/tnr/blogs/the_plank/archive/2009/01/20/adam-kirsch-on-elizabeth-alexander-s-bureaucratic-verse.aspx

Reading this article accompanied with my morning coffee, I am angered once again at Obama/the Obama team's choice for inaugural poet. I feel there are three primary reasons for Elizabeth Alexander being chosen. 1) good old fashioned nepotism (her brother was a senior adviser to Obama's presidential campaign as well as an adviser to Obama's "transition team")
2) she's african-american 3) she is physically acceptable to white america AS an african american; she is a very light skinned, intelligent, reasonably attractive feminine woman.

There have only been three other american inaugural poets: Robert Frost who while not poet laureate at the time of being the inaugural poet had previously been a poet laureate and was greatly known and loved by americans. Maya Angelou who while not light skinned, nor particularly attractive, nor a current or previous poet laureate at the time was still chosen by Clinton as his first inaugural poet. Likely because she is highly intelligent, highly talented but mostly well known to black america whom Clinton was trying to appeal to (in other words a pawn). And Clinton's second inaugural poet Miller Williams was another nepotism choice. Williams being a good old boy from Clinton's home state and as this was his last term in office Clinton didnt have to appeal to any particular group.

So other than Frost you might ask "Dirt the other two inaugural poetic choices werent poet laureates why are you getting your nose all outta joint"? Lets set Williams aside since the only reason he was among these elect few inaugural poets is because Clinton having had an inaugural poet his first term was simply following through with his second.

And my nose was and has remained a bit outta joint with Clinton's first inaugural choice in a poet with Angelou because at the time Rita Dove would easily had fulfilled her (and Clinton's) role as poet laureate had Clinton chose her instead of Angelou. In fact I feel she would have made a much better choice, it was within her job requirements (and talent) as poet laureate at the time she was also a Pulitzer Prize winning poet (only one of two african americans), something Angelou has yet to accomplish. But hey Rita hasnt been a frequent guest on Oprah now has she!

As to my anger over Obama's inaugural choice for poet? We (america) have a highly skilled and capable poet laureate currently in Kay Ryan, a much much better poet than Elizabeth Alexander. (not just my opinion, FACT) And with Kay Ryan, Obama had a chance to make the kind of difference we helped him achieve as the first black male president of the United States of America.

He could have chosen the woman who was chosen for the position (poet laureate) that is designed for just such an occasion (an inaugural poem). Who better to create a poem for America than the poet laureate OF America??? A position Ryan was chosen for because she speaks to America for America by an American! What could be more presidential than that I ask you???

Well I dont know what could be more, but I do intimately know what could be less. When you are a woman in any country, born of any race, practicing any religion and you look like this:


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Sunday, January 25, 2009

The "straight" lesbian? Huh?










If you are in some way part of the Femme/Butch community and have wondered as of late why there are sooooo many (pathologic) straight women there, THIS is why!

Disordered women of Butch persuasion ignorantly believing that dating straight women will bring them closer to a hetero male existence. Many also ignorantly believing if a straight woman dates them they are "more" butch than other Butch women.

If such a Butch woman has sunk to this kind of mentally ill thinking and receives no support in helping her to understand her pathologically internalized misogyny, she will likely sink further into BDD and may seek drugs and cosmetic mutilation to temporarily ease her discomfort. And if she has landed herself a straighty, being a hetero said straighty will no doubt encourage her physically/mentally abusive route. That way our straighty doesnt have to "feel" like a lesbian while being a part of a lesbian relationship.

So when the relationship fails (and they ALL do because unless there is a shared sexuality especially a shared sexuality sans mental illness all relationships fail) miss straighty will either take up where she left off with men and/or go on to another Butch suffering from BDD and remain within the Femme/Butch community asserting her straight privilege.

Each and everytime the Femme/Butch community either ignores or "supports" Butch women's BDD they not only are commiting a horrific offense against the Butch/Butches in question they are also opening the doors for hetero-privileged straight women into the community. And as we have witnessed in the last 10 years or so those same straight women utilizing their hetero-privileged powers to colonize our community because they are too afraid to do it under patriarchy for fear of losing male approval!


That what you call "being a pussy and eating it too"!!!

While the bricks may be stacked against us momentarily, the New Radical Lesbian Feminist Front is tackling such issues as we speak. If you're tired of of what is happening to the Femme/Butch community, join US for a CHANGE!

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