Mtf's and Pretty Woman

One thing that is clear from the myriad of posts like these that inundate the internet is just how little men REALLY know/understand woman.

By the very fact that all this man concerns himself with is being a "pretty woman" or nothing at all, emphasizes his male conditioned, male privilege, male gazed ideas of "woman" and his obviously disinterest/ignorance of woman herself.

And for the simple sake of clarity to potential new readers, when I write "woman" I am wholly speaking of the one dimensional male gazed masturbatory male idea of woman that have and continues to occupy/drive the dominant hetero porn industry, billboards, magazines and most major female media figures in general. When I write woman I am speaking of the 3D woman who is the honest to goodness flesh and blood woman our mothers created in their image.

That being said, I must say I find it an interesting bind when I read this sort of thing. Men who have been conditioned by men (who have all the power) are now measuring themselves against established male standards set for women while trying to emulate the IDEA "woman".

It is ALWAYS in the "trying" to be "women" that Mtf's miserably fail. Putting aside the biological impossibility of becoming another, for those disordered enough to attempt the feat and base themselves on an IDEA ("women") rather that than the real, failure is a given outcome Mtf's prove to us women again and again.

Using the above as our typical Mtf example, the only reason this man desires to appear "pretty" is not because he is interested in how others perceive him but rather how his cock responds to his perceptions of himself as "woman"!

If Mtf's really believed they were women and not the masturbatory "woman", their primary concern wouldnt be how "pretty" a woman!

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Breast Mutilation-a Butches Misogyny

This has become an all too familiar thread occupying butch/femme sites everywhere.

Butch/Femme sites across the net have become so heterocentric/malecentric that any woman with even the slightest bit of masculinity is automatically relegated to a male/male pronoun status. These current butch/femme sites are either ran or dominated by disturbed angry straight women who freely use their straight privilege to reign supreme over any butch/femme lesbian on the site.

Masculine lesbians looking for acceptance and visibility as masculine women are quickly taught at these sites that female masculinity is shameful and unequal to male masculinity and if they are in fact "real butches" they will ID as male and customize(drugs/mutilation)their bodies to suit the "queer stone femmes"-aka straight women there if they truely want to be desired and accepted.

Catering to misogyny is anything but accepting, it is the same old patriarchal practices cloaked in butch/femme swaddlings! Here is another disordered comment from the OP:

Nowhere in posts like these do we ever see a butch or a femme rail against this kind of insane interalized misogyny. We see either "fors" or silences. Butches are afraid to take an against stand because they fear doing so would put their fragile mascuinity in jeopardy. And femmes are afraid to say anything against because they fear they may cock block themselves from future Butch attentions. Its a lose/lose situation for Butches.

The REAL Butches and Femmes occupying these sites who are standing 'round blankly waiting for the winds to change, need to remember that every healthy breast hacked off the body of Butch woman is yet another nail in the coffin of female masculinity!

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Bearded Butches???

Just when you think you've seen it all from the hetero/male-centric butch/femme sites along come a winner like this one:

Is this some kinda swipe at the post menopausal butches there who may have grown a few chinny chin chin hairs? WTF? Have butches by the numbers all of a sudden sprouted facial hair and no one told me? And if we're going with the *cough cough* logic of this poster and facial hair is a source of masculinity, can someone please inform my best fag friend Sporto to cease and desist his queenerdom cuz he sports a stache?

And just to add to just how NON butch/femme, butch-femme is, here is a prime "femme" response to the OP:
Ahh....Shi!

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ps Since the dirtster is seriously lacking in the facial hair dept and been stripped of my masculinity and REAL Butch status, do I get any Butch cred for sportin chest hair???