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Saturday, July 5, 2008
ftM "Binding", misogyny and its damage
I believe I have yet to write about binding and its mental(female self hate) and moreover physical damages to women. Binding if you are not familiar is the practice of using various methods (ace bandages, panty hose, tape, compression vests, extra small bras etc) of smashing the breast as flat as possible in order to attain a flat/small chested appearance in the hopes of "passing" (as male). Let me also add that any masculine female (butch) can tell you, you can have dolly parton tits and if you are actually butch one still easily "passes". Sadly passing has much more to do with masculinity, than actual femaleness.
Binding is a HUGE topic of convo and concern in ftM communities across the net, precisely because in the ftM's disordered mind it is the start of creating the lie/illusion that they mistakenly BELIEVE to be a path to their "true" selves, but we all know good and well truth cannot be given birth to from lies and deceptions.
Binding is also simply and plainly a very dangerous routine which can and has resulted in some deaths. By having something tightly wrapped round and round your chest, this female self hating practice not only damages various nerves and ribs over time(as can be seen with examples below) but cuts off/slows blood flow keeping blood close to the heart, and result in heart attacks.
Any sort of bending over, if the woman in question has any heart issues (which most wouldnt even know because binding isnt something like drugs (T) one needs to see a dr. for) squeezes the binding tighter and pushes the blood towards the heart giving the heart little to no room to pump/contract normally causing a heart attack in some cases.
This is an issue never addressed by the ME, and in fact indirectly the ME may contribute to it when some ME "professionals" ignorantly mention to these female patients they do not "look male" to begin with, which threatens the fragile grip they already have on their identities. But this is obviously an area that needs serious ME attention as women are physically being permanently harmed/injured by these misogynistic practices.
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Binding is a HUGE topic of convo and concern in ftM communities across the net, precisely because in the ftM's disordered mind it is the start of creating the lie/illusion that they mistakenly BELIEVE to be a path to their "true" selves, but we all know good and well truth cannot be given birth to from lies and deceptions.
Binding is also simply and plainly a very dangerous routine which can and has resulted in some deaths. By having something tightly wrapped round and round your chest, this female self hating practice not only damages various nerves and ribs over time(as can be seen with examples below) but cuts off/slows blood flow keeping blood close to the heart, and result in heart attacks.
Any sort of bending over, if the woman in question has any heart issues (which most wouldnt even know because binding isnt something like drugs (T) one needs to see a dr. for) squeezes the binding tighter and pushes the blood towards the heart giving the heart little to no room to pump/contract normally causing a heart attack in some cases.
This is an issue never addressed by the ME, and in fact indirectly the ME may contribute to it when some ME "professionals" ignorantly mention to these female patients they do not "look male" to begin with, which threatens the fragile grip they already have on their identities. But this is obviously an area that needs serious ME attention as women are physically being permanently harmed/injured by these misogynistic practices.
dirt
Tuesday, July 1, 2008
"Naked Spots"!
Dirt KNOWS dresses dammit! If I havent mentioned it and I dont think I have Denise (after 12 fucking years) is FINALLY marrying her long term b/f Damon. They arent doing anything fancy, just one of those Vegas trip deals. So Denise is looking for a dress, again nothing fancy, just kinda simple and classic. She sends me these pics of a dress she likes this morning...
So she's telling me she really likes this dress but she doesnt like that its strapless. You know me and my good heart as well as always thinking on my feet, I tell her to go ahead and get it cuz I have a pair of black shoelaces still in the wrapper and I'll gladly stich them on the dress as straps, by HAND mind you! You think the cunt would be fucking thankful, but NOOOOOOOOOO! Ungrateful bitch!
Then dieks calls me and I told her Denise wants her to look at this dress and tell her what she thinks.(cuz apparently I wasnt good enough) Dieks is working at the new house trying to get their shit unloaded so until she gets back to the hotel tonight she doesnt have internet access. She asks me "well whats the dress look like"??
me: its black
dieks: and?
me: umm long
dieks: thats it?
me: its strapless too, which she doesnt like
dieks: thats it? whats the material look like?
me: uh, ummm it has naked spots
dieks: WHAT?
me: naked spots, where you can see through it.
dieks: like sheer?
me: I dont fucking know, NAKED SPOTS!
dieks: fucking call denise 3-way!
Now tell me I didnt give a pretty good description based on those pics!
dirt
So she's telling me she really likes this dress but she doesnt like that its strapless. You know me and my good heart as well as always thinking on my feet, I tell her to go ahead and get it cuz I have a pair of black shoelaces still in the wrapper and I'll gladly stich them on the dress as straps, by HAND mind you! You think the cunt would be fucking thankful, but NOOOOOOOOOO! Ungrateful bitch!
Then dieks calls me and I told her Denise wants her to look at this dress and tell her what she thinks.(cuz apparently I wasnt good enough) Dieks is working at the new house trying to get their shit unloaded so until she gets back to the hotel tonight she doesnt have internet access. She asks me "well whats the dress look like"??
me: its black
dieks: and?
me: umm long
dieks: thats it?
me: its strapless too, which she doesnt like
dieks: thats it? whats the material look like?
me: uh, ummm it has naked spots
dieks: WHAT?
me: naked spots, where you can see through it.
dieks: like sheer?
me: I dont fucking know, NAKED SPOTS!
dieks: fucking call denise 3-way!
Now tell me I didnt give a pretty good description based on those pics!
dirt
How far will the ME go to brutalize the disordered ftM's?
A handful of some random samplings of just how far the medical establishment will go to butcher disordered individuals for profit!
These photos are of disordered women who have paid good money to have themselves butchered by a willing ME. Does any of this butchery actually treat the MENTAL issues relating to this butchery? NO! Yet the ME continues performing these horrors on men and women who arent of a healthy mind to even make a reasoned decision concerning their illness.
This mutilation needs to be STOPPED!
dirt
These photos are of disordered women who have paid good money to have themselves butchered by a willing ME. Does any of this butchery actually treat the MENTAL issues relating to this butchery? NO! Yet the ME continues performing these horrors on men and women who arent of a healthy mind to even make a reasoned decision concerning their illness.
This mutilation needs to be STOPPED!
dirt
Sunday, June 29, 2008
fuck a butch up 101
If your a fucked in bean straight bitch who DESPISES women but refuses to date men, then butch-femme.com is the place for you!
I read putrid shit this morning in a thread at BF.com regarding "how butch" femmes like their butches. I know. Horrific! But this is the typical "femme" who inhabits that site. The het privilege is sickening, she obviosuly has no issues with joining/participating in what normally would be lesbian space (butch/femme) even while claiming she isnt a lesbian and isnt turned on by women(of which butch go figure happen to be). And she's dating a woman exactly why? Oh so she can mold her into the "man" her girlfriend was "born to be"! WHAT?????
This is why I warn butches about these fucked up straight bitches, they will fuck a butch up everytime in order to appease their narcissistic hetero inclinations. The butch doesnt matter, she is a means to these womens ends, no more, no less. These women are generally worse misogynists than most men, hands down. Its very likely they take a certain pleasure in destroying the butch as woman/lesbian, most usually are quite homophobic as well, such as this particular woman exemplifies.
Butches? If a "femme" has an issue with your being female in any fashion run for the fucking hills! If she cannot address you as a female, view you as a female or has no sexual desire for you as a female, she isnt femme and very likely isnt gay either.
dirt
I read putrid shit this morning in a thread at BF.com regarding "how butch" femmes like their butches. I know. Horrific! But this is the typical "femme" who inhabits that site. The het privilege is sickening, she obviosuly has no issues with joining/participating in what normally would be lesbian space (butch/femme) even while claiming she isnt a lesbian and isnt turned on by women(of which butch go figure happen to be). And she's dating a woman exactly why? Oh so she can mold her into the "man" her girlfriend was "born to be"! WHAT?????
This is why I warn butches about these fucked up straight bitches, they will fuck a butch up everytime in order to appease their narcissistic hetero inclinations. The butch doesnt matter, she is a means to these womens ends, no more, no less. These women are generally worse misogynists than most men, hands down. Its very likely they take a certain pleasure in destroying the butch as woman/lesbian, most usually are quite homophobic as well, such as this particular woman exemplifies.
Butches? If a "femme" has an issue with your being female in any fashion run for the fucking hills! If she cannot address you as a female, view you as a female or has no sexual desire for you as a female, she isnt femme and very likely isnt gay either.
dirt
Dirt wanna be? Dirt Poser? Troublemaker? All of the above?
The above was in my yahoo email box when I got up yesterday. Its one of those activation responses you get when you sign up for a site, only I didnt sign up for this site. From the way my name was typed (the DWB in caps), the time this was sent (after midnight-I was well on my way to dreamland, and as most of you know my pc gets turned off early evening, every day) and the fact that I didnt sign up to be a member there, its obvious someone dirt obsessed fruitcake is trying to fuck with the dirtster (good luck), and by using my actual email account wants me to know it (the shit people do to get me to feature them).
I saved the email because I was going to ask dieks and parker what they thought of it, then plum forgot about it. Then this morning while making my net rounds, I see this at that site:
I quickly capped that bitch which was smart because a second later some new person joined. So it seems miss fruitcups applied there again using my name but this time used an email account she can access. The moral of the story? If you happen to see anything on that site posted under that name or any name resembling mine, in those immortal words of bobbie dylan: IT AINT ME BABE!
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