Thursday, June 12, 2008

Trannyism and Eating Disorders BDD=BDD

Trannyism and its close relationship to ED's, this is something we do not see being addressed by the medical community. The two going hand in hand isnt a coincidence, but the medical establishment would like us to think otherwise by not addressing it and relegading the two, to two different corners, when in fact they occupy the same space!

Should we really wonder why so early on the two disorders and thier insanely different treatmens were seperated at birth? Both involve an unhealthy, unrealistic idea regarding the body. Both view the body as something other than, as something that needs to be controled and altered to "fit" the mental image each sufferer has of their self no matter how insane or unhealthy that may be. The critical difference to the medical establishment though, is sex!

Trannyism was largely created by Harry Benjamin, who partly after lurking through gay bar after gay bar and seeing men dressed as "women" (drag queens) and partly being involved in a Kinsey case whereby he treated a boy with female hormones who believed himself to be a female, HB coined and created the transsexual. This treatment (drugging and butchery a healthy body which still is obviously prevalent today) of body dysphoria had much more to do with "curing" the homosexuality HB witnessed in the gay bars he had lurked than actually trying to understand this brand of body dysphoria.

HB an old white heterosexual patriarch ignorantly believed (rather than investigated) that those suffering from trannyism were homosexual, therefore if he could "change" their sex (and by their I mean males) they could at least appear heterosexual because of their attractions to men. Despite the fact that most of the men he "treated" were in fact straight. One could pose the question why didnt these men speak up? And as I show here regularly, the (BD) disordered person will do/say anything in their power to feed their disorder. Most of HB's patients would have feared losing "treatment" if they spoke up.

So now we sit 60 years later drugging and butchering one group of BDDed whose disorder is located in the mind, and treating the other group with of BDDed whose disorder is also located in the mind with therapy and relearning. And this would be why?

We should also note BDD period is and has been primarily caused by our strict patriarchal misogynistic binaried society, yet that remains intact and in full force.






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butch-femme.com crap

Awww I think someone likes me! Lookie who got a high mention by top nanner herself! I wonder if she grouped us (me and dieks-who btw way is still MIA and Bent and AS-who I believe are no longer together) together cuz she views us as the most notorious BF banned couples of all time or because secretly she really misses all of us? Maybe she's worried all this ban talk might make members rethink the banned forever rule.

Also note (I know parker will) her internalized misogyny at work by listing Bent and myself because we're butch and she views butches as men, before dieks and AS who are merely women. Tsk tsk!



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Wednesday, June 11, 2008

GID confusion among the GID'd

This is just a petite sample of the comments made to the OP, there were 12 pages of similar comments to the ones I chose.

There are two primary matters which stand out among the comments. One being, all these men had/have fathers whom they felt/feel expected or in many cases demanded they look/act in accordance to the father's idea of what a boy/man should be.

There isnt a person alive who hasnt felt pressure to bend to the ideas/beliefs of their parents to varying degrees. I believe the difference in trans circumstance is a combination of the pressures coming from the parent/s (in this case the father) is excessive/pathological coupled with the particular nature of the individual.

The second matter we see is either the misunderstanding or perhaps denial of the whys of trannyism by the trans person. Most ascribe their disorder as being the reason why they had/have failed relationships with their fathers. Rather than face/admit or put the portion of their disorders responsibility where it truely belongs, their parents!

It is easier to blame the disorder than their parents. Their disorder isnt going to hate them, with hold love from them, turn them out into the streets, we cannot say the same is true of their parents.







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Tuesday, June 10, 2008

Only Peens are Masculine, didnt you know!

As preposterous and ill informed as this may read to most, it is actually fairly common thinking among trans individuals. A complete and utter pathological face valued acculturation of blatant male/femaled binary externalizations. In their disordered binary minds, there is only one way to be male and only one way to be a female and if one deviates from patriarchal conditioning then surely it means they were "born in the wrong body".

This pathological acculturation of the binary is one of the stemming forces that presses a person towards the trans disorder. Individuality is NEVER an option for the trans disordered, the pathological pressures from within/without are far too great for those suffering from this disorder to consider not "fitting in" with their/societies ideas of male/female. Although sadly, far too often, most often in fact human exile is precisely what transitioning achieves for the trannyism sufferer.



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Sunday, June 8, 2008

When ignoring that little voice turns dangerous

Let me first get out of the way the hetero male sexist bullshit remark regarding the lack of a "womens" ability to open a jar. This is a perfect example why men (especially hetero men) make bad "women". And I put that in a quotation because "woman" is quite different than woman. "Woman" is the male idea of woman, and NOT woman herself. The male idea of woman as weak and passive is just that an idea based on ignorant male assumptions perpetuated by the patriarchy and adopted by all men to varying extents.

To the OP himself, the difficulty with this is the person doubting doesnt even have the full faculties to thoroughly investigate these doubts. Which is compounded when asking a community suffering from one of the same disorders. Clearity in these cases sadly isnt an option. And currently the medical establishment like trans communities/resources only adds to the person in doubts confusion. Confusion more often than not leading towards "transition" rather than away from it, which is after all where these doubt are springing from. A last ditch effort made by part of the mind not totally enveloped by this disorder in order to save itself from itself.






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Mel is at it again!


I swear no one on planet Lj had made more desperate attempts and pleas for attention than Mel! If I had a buck for every intro post this guy has made there I'd be buying myself a new car!

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