Dismantling the assumptions

Regular readers probably get tired of seeing these sorts of post but as a butch lesbian I feel it is important to put them out there. There is a HUGE assumption that ft"M"s began as masculine female lesbians and simply made a "natural" transition to "man" territory. As if masculinity itself is owned by males and therefore we as masculine women cannot be both female AND masculine, we most certainly "should" transition and be the "true" men we were "supposed" to be.

Hence the reason for these posts by an actual masculine female lesbian, which together equals BUTCH, NOT ft"m"! To further clarify being butch isnt something dreamed up in a lab and created by drugs and the hacking off of healthy body parts! One is born butch; masculine, female and lesbian.

The ft"M" community isnt at all primarily made up of ex-butches, it is however made up primarily of non butch(dykey)lesbians(some of which wrongly ID'd as butch) and non masculine straight women. But as long as there are assumptions that it IS made up of ex-butches, you will see me making post after post after post illuminating a reality which begs to differ, until those assumptions are no more.



dirt

Snappy shmappy

I just recieved this in an email. The party in question believes they're talking about me, which they could be. If in fact they are, its hilarious! Why hilarious you ask the dirtster?

Cuz once upon a time ulibuli use to date this shmappy chick, shmapps even lived with ulibuli for a spell. Little shmapps got a tad jealous when ulibuli developed a small crush on the dirtster. (who can blame her right?) I believe said crush also had a smidge to do with their breaking up. All in all though shmapps seemed like an okay gal who never had a thing to worry about regarding me recipricating ulibuli's crush. And not to be a dick or anything but come on, me date someone 10 years younger and 3 1/2 foot taller when I'm 5'7" as it is???? Not too likely. But we were friends or so I thought for a bit, had a few laughs and some cheap leo's dinner food till I found out through dieks ulibuli had a gapping hole in her lip. And we all know "loose lips sink ships", friendships that is.

Add to that(which I had forgiven) both ulibuli and dressy found out I was chatting up dieks, well that was that! I was then the enemy of both and have been ever since...lol Hmmm guess ulibuli wasnt the only one crushing! The REALLY funny thing though, right towards the end of ulibuli's and my friendship, right before her or dressy knew I was dating dieks, she made a complete break with shmapps. Guess who was the FIRST femme at BF that shampps hits on in a private message????? Go on I said, guess! DEIKS!!!!!!!!...lol

Obviously shmapps is out of traction and back in action at BF! Good luck to her, cuz the choice of good femme there is NIL! Personally I think I snagged the last one! And fuck, she hangs up on me at least twice a week!




dirt

Hung like a Snuffleupagus

More idiots taking drugs who have no clue what effects said drugs actually cause. And the medical establishment is doling these drugs out to idiots why?




dirt

Trannyism aka A Special Kind of Stupid

While a great deal can be attrubuted to their (trannys) disorder/s one can seriously only give so much leeway before one concludes: STUPID!

The world that surrounds every single child is teaming with sex/role cues and like the tiny little sponges that they are, they absorb. Note, I said absorb, NOT process, after all they are children.

I have a handful of small nieces and nephews, who call me "aunt lynn" on the one hand yet use "he/him" pronouns on the other, despite corrections from adults. When Nash asked Mad why she calls me "he" she said cuz "he has short hair like daddy". These (hair/dress)the simple cues children use to assess others sex with. Its strictly about stereotypes and majorities, in time as they mature, that may change or it may not. I think for familys that have masculine women and feminine men in them, it changes.

But simply because this little boy called this fruitcake "uncle" doesnt at all mean he viewed said fruitcake AS a male. I would wager she was/is addressed as "uncle so and so" by the mother and others in front of the boy, he is then is to take that cue given by adults and go with it. Obviously as he is maturing he is seeing/sensing miss fruitpie as the female she actually is, and not the role she is portraying.

The real stupid for me though is her use of this boys purported "gender issues" as reason why he's addressing her actual sex. Infuckingsane! Given the ignorance this mother has of this disorder(trannyism) one can only pray this boy isnt trannified by the parents as sadly is becoming the case for some children. Its obvious miss fruitpie is just as ignorant of trannyism in males because she's assuming because he likes dolls or feminine things he may be "trans". When any moron knows statistically male trannys are rarely feminine and generally grow up as typcial boys with typcial boy behaviors.


dirt

BF lies, bull and screencaps

Strictly for shits and giggles and to show exactly what you can do if you spend literally less than 10 minutes with a screen cap(insert whatever IP you want).

This is in reference to a comment below regarding a screen cap that half the community is acting as though came down from the mouth of god therefore it MUST be true! Any idiot(even me) can spend a minimum amount of time(10 min) with a cap and a simple photoshot(snagit)program and have it say whatever the fuck they want and then post it as the gods honest truth. I can believe there are morons out there in this day and age that think a cap is unalterable! These must be the same people that think if they read it on teh webz it must be true!

I am glad to see a few folks there make the point that given the cap is true, it is also out of context and we all know context is as important as truth. How do people know miz chris or miz top banana or P chris herself didnt delete rhons shit first and the caps they've so conveniently displayed for the community to see are not actions in retaliation??

see uncapped post here
http://www.butch-femme.com/portal/forums/showpost.php?p=2860667&postcount=3707

dirt

BF bish in urgant need of a wahmbulance!

While its nice to see 4 years later I'm still being talked about with a really sweet emotional high mention by whiney..errr...Toughy, the "racist" fucking remark is a tad much. Its never been a goal of mine to win friends and influence people (although I am often do both), if you dont like me fine, I dont sweat it. If ya think I'm an asshole, 9 times out of 10 ur probably right, but dont blatantly fucking lie as to why you dont like me or why you think I should/have been banned!

I'm mean for crying out loud, ME? Racist? NEVER! Good god not only am I dating a fucking wetback, I have black friends!!!!!! Sheesh! Oh and toughy? In the real world where people actually have a sense of humour, thats called a JOKE!



dirt

Mtf "transmisogyny" wankage!

Largely this is yet another Mt"w"s oblique attack on the MWMF, by attacking a regular MWMF performer. Mt"w"s merely use the patriarchal derived "transmisogyny" term because it is their way to reclaim some of the external losses of some of their male privileges. Their anger over this manifest itself like the anger of most men in attacking/abusing/threatening/questioning women(misogyny). In this case it is by demanding rights as bio men who are performing the male gaze idea of "women" as justification to the entry into womens spaces.

Given that even within the patriarchal idea of "women" physical violence is frowned upon, (not that it isnt often threatened), Mt"w"s will use attacking tactics such as getting in the faces of women patrons, pulling their cocks out and waving them at women patrons, threatening women patrons with physical violence and/or rape, playing loud hate music in hopes of drowning out women performer, questioning womens rights to have rights, in short any means possible they can use without actually getting physical in order to sabotage the performer/s/show/s.

In a nut shell that exist within patriarchy, some old song and dance. Men EVERYTHING, women nothing.







dirt

aki flips his shit!

Mr fruitcup here loses what little he has of his mind, because I made an accurate comment regarding his g/f, under a friends sock. So he whines to the MOD of the community to make a post about "trasphobia", then makes a bunch of wild accusations about me (none of which he nor anyone else can corroborate) in a comment. Can we say BUTTHURT!




dirt

Mtf retard

Mt"w" male privileged bullshit! This guy is unhappy with his g/f because she as a typical het woman attracted to typcial het guys, has a problem with her b/f for trannifying, how dare she! SHE should be the one change for her man and screw that bitch if she doesnt! Uhhh right. I love the convenience Mt"w"s take to employ their male privilege. They're are all about how much they're just like any other woman, until the patriarchal powers they were born with is threatend, then the dress comes flying off at record speed!

Well as a woman, a masculine woman even, I have to say it must be nice to not only have that convenience, but expect it too.




dirt